Amaphupha ayingomfanekiso nje ongenantsingiselo owenzeka kwiintloko zethu xa silele. Ngexesha lamaphupha, iinkumbulo zasemini kunye neziganeko zihlala zicutshungulwa kwaye zidlalwa kwakhona.
Ezi ayizizo bhanyabhanya yokoqobo kwinto esiye sayifumana ngala mhla kodwa zinokuba nentsingiselo efihlakeleyo.
Intsingiselo
Amaphupha ahlala emalunga nemicimbi esixhalabisayo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Uthatha iingcinga ezithile kunye nemisebenzi yengqondo xa urhubuluza ebhedini kwaye ungathathi ixesha elaneleyo lokuphumla. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuqhubeka usila ngelixa ulele kwizihloko ebezihlala kuwe emini.
Amaphupha ziingcinga ezifihlakeleyo, ezingaziwayo (okanye ezingacacanga) ezikukhathaza kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Ayizizo izinto ezixelwa kwangaphambili ngekamva. Azinangqondo, iimvakalelo ezinzulu, kunye nezinto ezikugcina uxakekile.
Amaphupha aqhelekileyo
Ukuphupha ngokukhubeka / ukuwa
Elinye lawona maphupha aqhelekileyo ngumzuzu ophakathi kokuvuka nokulala. Ngequbuliso uvuka ngumothuko, imvakalelo okanye umbono wokuba ukhubekile, ukrobe unyawo okanye wawa. Kuvakala ngathi unomsindo. Kukwimeko enjalo.
Amaphupha amakhulu ngamaphupha apho ubonakala uwe khona, hayi ukukhubeka okanye ukuguqula unyawo. Uwile ngenene ukusuka kubude obuthile, umoya ungxamile ukudlula kuwe, kwaye uzive uxhalabile. Inokubandakanya ukuntywila emanzini, apho usoyika ukuntywila. Intsingiselo yeli phupha inxulunyaniswa neemvakalelo zokuziva ulilolo kunye nokungazithembi. Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, umzekelo, uziva ngathi awuxhaswanga ngokwaneleyo okanye uyaphazanyiswa ziziganeko okanye iimvakalelo.
Amaphupha ngokubulawa okanye ukuzibulala
Xa uphupha ngokubulala, kuyakucaca ukuba ngamava amabi. Amaxesha amaninzi malunga nokuziva kubomi bemihla ngemihla ukuba abanye banamandla kuwe okanye bafuna ukwenza into ngawe. Ukuba ungumbulali ngokwakho, inokuba malunga nawe ufuna ukuvala indawo ethile okanye ukukulahla. Ayikwenzi umbulali, kunjalo!
Amaphupha okuleqwa
Amaphupha malunga nokuleqa malunga nezoyikiso. Omnye umntu uhlala eziva esongelwa ebomini bokwenyani ngabanye kwindalo esingqongileyo. Inokuba malunga nomntu othile, kodwa ikwakhona nangeemvakalelo ezithile ezikukhathazayo kwaye ongenakukuyeka. Zifumanele ngokwakho intsingiselo ngqo enokuhamba: yintoni ebomini bakho ekwenza uzive usoyikiswa? Ngaba ukhona umntu okukhuthazayo, okanye ngaba sisiganeko esithile? Ngaba unokwenza okuthile malunga nayo?
Ukuphupha ngokuhamba ze
Uyanxiba, ngequbuliso uqaphela ukuba ujikelezwe ngabanye. Uhlala kwindlu yangasese, kwaye ngequbuliso iindonga ziyavela. La maphupha, ewe, malunga neemvakalelo zokuba sesichengeni kunye neentloni. Kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unoluvo lokuba kufuneka ubhence (kakhulu) isiqu sakho, ukuba uphathe imfihlo enzima kuwe.
Kukwabonakala ukuba eli phupha liqhelekile phakathi kwabantu abaza kutshata (nokuba kunjalo, kufuneka uziveze komnye umntu kuba uza kwabelana ngobomi bakho naloo mntu).
Ukuphupha malunga nokulahleka kwenqwelomoya okanye uloliwe
Kula maphupha, ungxama ukuya eqongeni okanye ezibukweni ukuze ubambe uloliwe, isikhephe, okanye inqwelomoya, kodwa ngalo mzuzu, ubona imoto iqhuba. Iimvakalelo ezihamba noku zihlala ziphazamisekile, hayi uloyiko. Oku ayikuko malunga nokusilela kwindlela yothutho (ungaphupha nokuba uphoswa yintlanganiso okanye umsitho obalulekileyo), kodwa intsingiselo kukwandiswa.
Amaxesha amaninzi, kuye kwafuneka ujongane nesigqibo esinzima ebomini bakho bokwenyani, okanye usembindini waso. Iphupha elo libonisa ukuba uphoswe lithuba elibalulekileyo, kwaye ukwimeko enzima apho kuya kufuneka ukhethe phakathi kwezinto ezimbini (okanye ezingaphezulu) ezizithandayo kuwe.
Ulahlekelwe ngamaphupha akho
Eli phupha libonisa ngokucacileyo ubomi bokwenyani. Unokulahleka kubomi bemihla ngemihla, kwaye oku kuhlala kubonakala ephupheni. Ephupheni, unokuzifumana ukwi-maze okanye kwisixeko esikhulu apho ungayazi khona indlela. Oku kubonisa ukuphelelwa lithemba ngamanye amaxesha ebomini bakho.
Amaphupha ngokukhohlisa kwiqabane
Kubudlelwane, uhlala uva ukuba elinye lamaphupha elinye liyakopa. Omnye umntu uziphethe ephupheni lakho ngokungathi akukho nto konke konke, ngokungathi sisiganeko esiqhelekileyo, esenza ukuba uzive ukhathazekile. Awunamandla, ngokungathi umntu waqhekeka kubomi bokwenyani. Intsingiselo yoku kukuba (ungazi) woyika ukulahlekelwa yenye. Okwangoku, isenokuthetha ukuba sele uziva ukuba kukho into elahlekileyo kubudlelwane bakho (ikakhulu ngenxa yokuba iqabane lakho ephupheni lisabela ngokukhululekileyo kulo).
Izinto eziqhelekileyo emaphupheni
Iimpawu zamaphupha
- Izilwanyana: indalo kunye nokusinda
- Izindlu: ngaphakathi (iimvakalelo, iinkumbulo)
- Iindlela: indlela yobomi / ukhetho
- Amazinyo: ubuhle (umzekelo, ukulahlekelwa ngamazinyo)
- Amanzi: ukungazi, uxolo lwangaphakathi
- Umtshato: kufuneka utshatile (ngokoqobo ngokoqobo)
- Imali: ukuzixabisa
- Iintaba: imiqobo
- Iintsana: ukuba sesichengeni, into entsha
- Uviwo: ukuzivavanya ngokwakho
- Ukufa: utshintsho
Iziqulatho
- Intsingiselo
- Amaphupha aqhelekileyo
- Ukuphupha ngokukhubeka / ukuwa
- Amaphupha ngokubulawa okanye ukuzibulala
- Amaphupha okuleqwa
- Ukuphupha ngokuhamba ze
- Ukuphupha malunga nokulahleka kwenqwelomoya okanye uloliwe
- Ulahlekelwe ngamaphupha akho
- Amaphupha ngokukhohlisa kwiqabane
- Izinto eziqhelekileyo emaphupheni
- Iimpawu zamaphupha