Ithini iBhayibhile ngokuxolela ukungathembeki?
Phakathi NgamaKristu zamabandla namahlelo ahlukeneyo, amaKatolika okanye hayi, zininzi iintsomi kunye nolwazi olungeyonyani ngokubhekisele Umtshato wamaKristu kunye nayo izibophelelo . Inkqubo ye- IBhayibhile icace gca kule nkalo; ulwazi esinokulufumana apho namhlanje luxhaswa izifundo zengqondo .
Ke ngoko kunomdla kakhulu ukwenza uhlalutyo lomxholo wezi zicatshulwa, oya kuthi ube luncedo kakhulu kwabo baneengxaki zobudlelwane kwaye kufuneka boyise okanye baxolele ukungathembeki nokuba baneenkolelo zonqulo okanye akunjalo.
Iimpawu zomtshato wamaKristu:
Umtshato wamaKristu awunakunyibilika; kukuzibophelela ubomi bonke okwenziwa liqabane lakhe. Isithembiso sokubuyisa uthando, imbeko, intlonipho, kunye nokuzikhathalela kuzo zonke iimeko nakwiimeko kude kufike ukufa.
Nangona kunjalo, siphi esi sithembiso sokubuyekeza sibhalwe eBhayibhileni? Akukho ndawo, kuba ayingoThixo otshata abantu, sisibini esenza isigqibo sokutshata ngokukhululekileyo nangokuzenzekelayo, uThixo usikelela kuphela ubudlelwane kwaye alindele elowo ngokwesithembiso asenzileyo, ukuba aziphathe kakuhle ngothando, inkxaso kunye nincedane kwinto yonke.
Ungaze uyilibale le: WAGQIBA UKUTSHATA , yayisisigqibo sakho sokuzibophelela ngobomi bakho, akukho mntu wakunyanzelayo, kwaye uThixo akazange akubuze, de umpostile uPawulos wakucebisa ukuba ungatshati nabo banesiphiwo sokuya kwilizwekazi.
Indoda nenkosikazi abangamaKristu abanako ukwahlukana neqabane labo; UThixo uyiyalela ngale ndlela ukuze ongakholwayo abenakho ukuguquka ngokusebenzisa iqabane lakhe elikholwayo. Nangona kunjalo, ongakholwayo ahlukane xa efuna; Sisigqibo sakhe (1 Kor. 7:15) .
Nantsi enye yezona ndlela zitolikayo ziphosakeleyo nezonakalisayo kubantu abaninzi abangamaKristu abacinga ukuba babotshelelwe ubomi kwindoda okanye kumfazi obabangele ukuba benzakalise.
Masenze into: Ukuba ngaba ongakholwayo uyamshiya umKristu, le yokugqibela ayinanto yakwenza nokumphepha; akanakumnyanzela ukuba ahlale ecaleni kwakhe, akunjalo? Ke simahla luxanduva, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko bohlulwa ngenxa yokulahla eyokuqala.
Into kukuba, asiqondi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukulahla. Sithanda ukucinga ukuba ukulahla kukwahlukana ngokwasemzimbeni, ukushiya indlu kunye nokushiya omnye umntu; Kodwa ukushiya kunemibala emininzi, umzekelo , Ndingamshiya umntu ngokwasemoyeni kwaye ndiqhubeke ndikunye naye, ndirhoxise uthando lwam, ingqalelo yam, kwaye ndenze ukungakhathali, nako oko kukushiya; Ukuba ndibetha iqabane lam, ndibonisa uhlobo lokulahlwa, kuba ndiyekile ukumkhusela ekumonzakaliseni, kwaye ukuba andithembekanga, ndimlahlile.
Baninzi abafazi abangamaKristu abaphathwa kakubi ngabayeni abababethayo, okanye abangathembekanga kubo amaxesha ngamaxesha, okanye ababaphethe kakubi. Aba bafazi bangamaKrestu bacinga ukuba abanako ukohlukana nabayeni babo kuba uThixo akayivumeli loo nto.
Kufuneka siyiqonde le nto: ukubethwa, ukungathembeki, ukuphathwa gadalala, kunye nokungakhathali okusebenzayo; zonke ziyafana nokushiya. Ke ngoko, ixhoba elingumKristu kwezi mbandezelo likhululekile ekuzibopheleleni kwalo ukuba linqwenela njalo; UThixo akanyanzeli nabani na ukuba ahlale kubudlelwane obubuhlungu.
Into kufuneka yenziwe icace gca: UmKristu akanako ukwala iqabane lakhe nangasiphi na isizathu ngaphandle kwezizathu zokuhenyuza (Mat. 5:32) , kodwa ngokutsho kompostile uPawulos (1Ko 7:15) , umntu ongenguye umKristu unokulikhaba iqabane lakhe nanini na xa efuna, kwaye oku kukwala esele sithethile, ukuphathwa kakubi, ukungathembeki, ukungakhathali okusebenzayo.
Oko kukuthi, phantsi kwezi meko, umKristu sele elahliwe, yiyo ke loo nto ukwahlukana okanye ukupheliswa komtshato Ubudlelwane sele benzekile, kwaye umKristu ngoku ukhululekile ukuba athathe isigqibo. Ubuza ntoni uThixo kule meko? Xolela, zama ukugcina umtshato wakho, kodwa noThixo uyazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha imeko ayinakunyamezeleka kwaye ikushiye ukhululekile ukuba wenze isigqibo.
Ndiyichaza ngenye indlela: Abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba yintoni ukuthanda kukaThixo ngomtshato wam? Ukuthanda kukaThixo akunanto yakwenza nomtshato womntu. Ukuthanda kukaThixo kuhlala kuhlala kunento yokwenza nezinto ezingunaphakade, kwaye umtshato awukho ngonaphakade (Mt. 22:30) . Ewe uThixo unomdla kubomi bakho kwaye ufuna ukuba yeyona nto ibalaseleyo, kodwa intando kaThixo, injongo yakhe, icebo lakhe kunye nokukhathalela okuphambili kukusindiswa kwabantu.
Ke masibuze umbuzo kwakhona: Yintoni ukuthanda kukaThixo ngomtshato wam? Impendulo yile: Ngamana unganoxolo, inzolo, ukomelela, inkuthazo, kunye nokulungela ngokwasemphefumlweni ukukhathazeka ngecebo losindiso; Ngaba ulwalamano lwakho lwangoku luyakuvumela oku, okanye ngaba lusisikhubekiso? (Mat 6:33) .
Iziphumo zokungathembeki kumtshato wamaKristu:
Ukungathembeki kuyayiqhawula imbophelelo yomtshato kuba ubudlelwane bezesondo ngokungekho mthethweni busimanya kuloo mntu (1Ko 6:16) kwaye uThixo akanyanzeli mntu ukuba ahlale etshatile phantsi kwentlungu kunye nokukhathazeka kangangokuba esi siganeko singambangela. UYesu utsho ngokucacileyo ukuba esi sizathu sesona sizathu sokuqhawula umtshato (Mt 5:32) .
Ukuxolela ukungathembeki kumtshato wamaKristu:
Uxolelo olufundiswe nguYesu zezona zonke izono umntu anokuzenza kuthi, kwaye oko kubandakanya ukungathembeki emtshatweni, oko kukuthi, umKristu kufuneka axolele ukungathembeki.
Oku akuthethi ukuba unyanzelekile ukuba uqhubeke uhlala nalo mntu wayengathembekanga kuwe , ukungathembeki kuyalichitha iqhina lomtshato kwaye kugunyazisa umKristu ukuba ahlukane ukuba uyafuna, okanye ungagqiba ekubeni uqhubeke nokuhlala neqabane lakho. Kuzo zombini ezi meko, kuya kufuneka uxolele.
Ibhayibhile, njengoko sele sibonile, ibeka oonobangela abanokuthi baqhawule umtshato , nangona kunjalo akukho ndawo umKristu ayalelwa ukuba ahlukane ngenxa yezizathu ezithile; Esi sisigqibo esipheleleyo nesipheleleyo somntu ngamnye ojamelene neengxaki zabo.
Ukuba wena njengomKristu ulixhoba lokungathembeki kwaye ukholelwa ukuba unamandla okuxolela kwaye uqhubeke nobudlelwane, kukho inguquko yokwenyani neyokwenyani yeqabane lakho (umKristu okanye akunjalo) kuyacetyiswa ukuba uxolele kwaye uqale ukukhangela umtshato Ukubuyiselwa. Kunye neemvakalelo zombini ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba ulixhoba lokungathembeki kwaye awucingi ukuba unamandla okoyisa ukungathembeki ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo: ukuphindaphinda kwakhona kweqabane elingathembekanga, ubundlobongela basekhaya okanye uzame ukuqhubeka iinyanga ezimbalwa okanye iminyaka, kwaye awunakukuthwala; ungaziva unyanzelekile ukuba uqhubeke nobudlelwane. Okokuqala kukho ukuzinza kweemvakalelo zakho .
UThixo akafuni nangayiphi na indawo ukuba uwele kwisaqhwithi esicinezelayo ongenakuphuma kuso ngaphandle koncedo lobuchwephesha, kwaye oko kuyakunciphisa bonke ubuchule kunye neetalente zakho. Nangona kunjalo, emva kokwahlukana, nokuba kugqityiwe, kufuneka ufune uxolelo ngento abayenze kuwe; oku kuthetha ukungazigcini iimvakalelo zentiyo, ingqumbo, okanye ukuziphindezela.
Asikukhuthazi ukuqhawula umtshato nangayiphi na indlela. Xa ujamelene nokungathembeki, umKristu kufuneka azame ukwenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukugcina umtshato wakhe, ukuqinisekisa intlalontle yeqabane lakhe kunye nabantwana, kwaye, ukuba kukho imfuneko, asebenzise uncedo lobungcali. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko zomtshato apho, njengoko besitshilo, azinakonwaba, kwaye kulapho ke apho kuya kuba ngcono ukuba uthathele ingqalelo ukwahlukana njengefestile yoncedo.
Xa umKristu ethatha isigqibo sokuxolela ukungathembeki kwaye aqhubeke nobudlelwane , wenza isigqibo sokuthwala, kodwa kufuneka acace ukuba umnqamlezo awulayishwa ngokuwuthwala kuphela kodwa wenziwa ngenjongo ebaluleke kakhulu.
UYesu ethwele umnqamlezo wakhe wayenenjongo ecacileyo nebalulekileyo; akazange abandezeleke ngenxa nje yokuba efuna ukubandezeleka, akunjalo? Ukuba uyabona ukuba oku kubandezeleka kukukhokelela kwinto engenanto ngaphandle kokubandezeleka okungakumbi, kuya kuba kuthwele umnqamlezo ngaphandle kwenjongo. Khumbula ukuba uThixo ufuna ukuba ubomi bakho bube nenjongo, ekufuneka ukuba ineziphumo ezingunaphakade.
Ngoku ndiyakumema ukuba uchithe ixesha elithile ucinga ngesi sihloko:
- Uphononongo olukholwayo kwaye ujonge amathuba onawo ngomtshato wakho.
- Khumbula ukuba uThixo akanakubekwa tyala ngokwenzekileyo kuwe, izilingo zenyama zinamandla kuzo zonke iintlobo zabantu, kwaye uThixo ukukhusele kwinto embi kakhulu.
- Musa ukugweba iqabane lakho, musa ukusebenzisa izivakalisi okanye amagama agxekayo; khumbula ukuba okwenzekileyo kuye, kwiimeko ezifanayo, kusenokwenzeka nakuwe. Musa ukuphosa ilitye lokuqala (UYohane 8: 7)
- Khumbula umzekeliso woMkhonzi Ongenambulelo (Mt 18: 23-35) nokuba banetyala elingakanani na ngokuchasene nawe; Kuya kufuneka uxolele kuba uThixo wakuxolela kuqala ityala elikhulu kakhulu.
- Khumbula ukufuna kwaye ucinge ngokuthanda kukaThixo ngobomi bakho, ngaphakathi apho kunokuba uqhubeke nobudlelwane ngenxa yokubaluleka kwayo, okanye isenokuba kukuphelisa ngenxa yokuba ingenamathuba exesha elizayo.
- Ngoku thetha neqabane lakho malunga nesi sihloko, cacisa ipanorama yebhayibhile yomtshato kunye nokubaluleka kwayo kuwe.
Yintoni ukukrexeza?
Kukuthini ukukrexeza ngokwebhayibhile .Ukukrexeza ligama lesiGrike Umoychea. Ndichaza isenzo sobudlelwane obusondeleyo nomnye umntu ngaphandle komtshato.
Kwilizwi likaThixo, esi sono sibizwa ngokuba kukungathembeki emtshatweni. Esi sisono senyama, esona okanye esaphula umthetho we- imigaqo yebhayibhile isekwe ngu NguThixo .
Kukuthini ukukrexeza, kwixa elidlulileyo nakweli langoku, kuye kwaba bubhubhane emzimbeni ka Yesu nasehlabathini. Sifumanise ukuba bobabini abaphathiswa abaziwayo kunye neenkonzo zitshatyalalisiwe ngenxa yoko. Thina njengebandla kufuneka sithethe kwaye sijongane ngqo nale ngxaki.
Iindinyana ezivela kwi-Adultery
IEksodus 20:14
Uze ungakrexezi.
1 Tesalonika 4: 7
Kuba uThixo akasibizelanga ekungcoleni; usibizele ebungcwaliseni.
IMizekeliso 6:32
Okrexeza ke uswele intliziyo; Wonakalisa umphefumlo wakhe owenzayo.
Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 6: 9
Anazi na ukuba abangemalungisa abayi kubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo? Musa ukulahleka; abenza umbulo, nabakhonzi bezithixo, nabakrexezi, nezifebe, namadoda alalanayo,
ILevitikus 20:10
Ukuba umntu ukrexeza nomfazi wommelwane wakhe, umntu okrexezayo kunye nomntu okrexezayo uya kubulawa.
Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 2
Kodwa ngenxa yohenyuzo, elowo unomfazi wakhe, kwaye ngamnye unendoda yakhe.
UYeremiya 3: 8
Wabona ukuba ngenxa yokuba uSirayeli owayeneenkani ehenyuzile, ndandimgxothile ndamnika ileta yokwala; Kodwa uYuda owayenemvukelo akazange amoyike udadewabo, kodwa naye ke waya kuhenyuza.
Hezekile 16:32
kodwa njengomfazi okrexezayo, owamkela abasemzini endaweni yendoda yakhe.
Iindidi zokukrexeza
1. Ukukrexeza kwamehlo
Umnqweno wamehlo yenye yeengcambu zesono. Ngesi sizathu, uYobhi wenza umnqophiso namehlo akhe ukuba angaze ngokunyoluka abone intombi enyulu.
Inguqulelo yebhayibhile eyandisiweyo ifundeka ngolu hlobo: Ndenze umnqophiso (isivumelwano) emehlweni am, ndingajonga njani ndinyolukile okanye ndinyolukele intombazana? Masikhumbule ukuba amadoda ahendwa, okokuqala, ngamehlo abo.
Ke ngoko, kufuneka babe nokuzithemba ngesono, benze isigqibo sokwenza umnqophiso wokujonga umfazi ngendlela eyiyo.
Ndenze isivumelwano namehlo am ukuba ndingayijongi intombazana encinci ngendlela eza kundenza ndiyifune. Yobhi 31.1
2. Ukukrexeza kwentliziyo
Ngokwelizwi, akusosono ukubona umntu obhinqileyo emncoma ngokucoceka kwentliziyo; kodwa, sisono ukusijonga ukurhalela. Xa oku kusenzeka, ukukrexeza sele kwenziwe entliziyweni.
Nivile ukuba kwathiwa kumanyange, Uze ungakrexezi
3 . Ukukrexeza kwengqondo
Kukho abantu abaqhubeka bedlala ngeengcinga zokuziphatha gwenxa okungekho mthethweni; Kwaye ukuba umntu unolu hlobo lwamaphupha asondeleyo engqondweni yakhe, kufana nokuba wenze isono uqobo. Iindidi ezine zokukrexeza nokuhenyuza ziqala ngengcinga, ethi, ukuba iyonwabisa, ingcolise intliziyo, amehlo, nomzimba.
4. Ukukrexeza komzimba
Olu hlobo lwesono kukugqitywa, isenzo somzimba sento engene ngamehlo, kwaye icamngce. Ukudibana ngokusondeleyo nomntu kuzisa ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwasemoyeni, kwaye ukongeza, ukuhanjiswa kwemimoya kwenzeka.
Oku kwenzeka kuba mzuzu xa bekunye ngokusondeleyo, baba nyama-nye. Ngamazwi wenkululeko, oko kubizwa ngokuba ngamaqhina omphefumlo. Yiyo le nto kunzima ukuba abantu abenza isono sehenyuzo nokukrexeza bahlukane.
Bafuna ukusishiya isono, kodwa abanako. Umntu othile kufuneka amncede kuba uwele kumgibe wotshaba. Esi sisono esivela ngokuthe ngqo entliziyweni ngenxa yoko; Ungcolisa kakhulu.
Sithini isimo sengqondo somntu ophila ekukrexezeni nasekuhenyuzeni?
Akukho mntu uya kundibona libinzana eliphindaphindwayo engqondweni yalowo ukrexezayo.
Umntu okrexezayo kwaye uhenyuzo umfanyekisiwe ekuqondeni kwakhe ngumoya wenkohliso nobuxoki; Ke ngoko, akawuqondi umonakalo awenzayo kusapho lwakhe, ebantwaneni bakhe, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ubukumkani bukaThixo.
Umphefumlo womntu uyaqhekeka ube ziingceba, kwaye umntu uphulukana nobuntu bakhe; kuba unxibelelanisa umphefumlo wakhe nomnye umntu; emva koko, iziqwenga zomphefumlo womnye umntu ziza naye, kwaye iziqwenga zomphefumlo wakhe zihamba nomnye umntu lowo
Ke ngoko, uba ngumntu ongazinzanga ongenabo ubuntu bakhe; umphefumlo wakhe wonakele. Umntu okrexezayo ngumntu osoloko engazinzanga ngokweemvakalelo; unentliziyo emibini; akaneliswa; Uziva engaphelelanga, engonelisekanga sisiqu sakhe. Konke oku, ngenxa yokukrexeza, uhenyuzo, kunye nokuziphatha okubi.
Akukho mntu uya kundibona libinzana eliphindaphindwayo engqondweni yomntu okrexezayo. Masikhumbule ukuba nangona kungekho mntu usibonayo apha emhlabeni, ukho lowo ubona yonke into esezulwini, kwaye nguThixo.
Iliso lomkrexezi ligciné ukutshona kwelanga; ucinga, ‘Akukho liso liya kundibona,’ kwaye ugcina ubuso bakhe bufihlakele. Yobhi 24.15
Unokwenza ntoni ngabantu abaphila ngokukrexeza nokuhenyuza?
Suka kubo?
Kodwa ke ndanibhalela ukuba maningazidibanisi nosukuba enegama lokuba ngumzalwana, ukanti wenza umbulo, nokuba ulibawa, nokuba ungumkhonzi wezithixo, nokuba ungumtshabhisi, nokuba ulinxila, nokuba ungumphangi; . , 1 KwabaseKorinte 5.10-13.
Kuthetha ukuba uza kumala umntu okrexezayo, le nto ithetha ngayo le ndima, ayikokuvumela isono, kwaye uqale usichaze kuThixo ngomthandazo ukunceda lo mzalwana uwe. Sithiyile isono, ingenguye umoni. UThixo uyamthanda umoni kodwa uyasicaphukela isono.
Umsebenzi wethu kukuthethelela umzalwana kwaye simnike ilizwi lokuzahlula kwisono sokukrexeza nokuhenyuza.
Xa isono senziwa rhoqo
Xa isono senziwe ngokungagungqiyo, umnyango uvula idemon ukuba ize icinezele umntu. Kuwo wonke umsebenzi wenyama, kukho idemon engcungcuthekisa wonke umntu owenza enye yazo ngokuqhubekayo.
Xa umntu efikelele kwinkanuko, sele elahlekelwe kukoyika uThixo kwisazela sakhe. Bangabantu abadlwengula, abaxhaphaza abantwana, kunye nokunye ukuphambuka.
Bangena kwezona zenzo zingcolileyo nezona zinobundlobongela ukuze banelise umnqweno wabo wokunyanzelwa. Yonke into ebajikelezileyo iyatshatyalaliswa, njengomtshato nosapho. NguYesu kuphela onokubakhulula kobo bukhoboka.
Kutheni le nto kukho iingxaki zezono zakho?
Zintathu izinto ezibangela oku kulandelayo:
- Iziqalekiso zesizukulwana: Iziqalekiso ezingaqhelekanga zezinye zezona zinto zixhaphakileyo; namhlanje, baphindaphindeka kuba nabo babangelwa ngabazali babo, ootatomkhulu noomakhulu kunye nezihlobo zabo.
- Ukucinezelwa ngokusondeleyo kwexesha elidlulileyo, okunje ngokwenzakala, ukubulala, umbulo, ukuxhatshazwa okwenziwa ngabantu abasondeleyo kusapho.
- I-Por-nography kwiTV-unomathotholo kunye neemagazini. Kwilizwe lanamhlanje, uninzi lwamajelo eendaba ane-por-nographic ingredient kumanani amancinci okanye amakhulu, achaphazela iingqondo zethu. Kodwa, kwicala lethu sizisa zonke iingcinga zokuthotyelwa ekuthobeleni uKrestu.
Zithini iziphumo zokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo, njengokuhenyuza nokukrexeza?
Ke mna ndithi kuni, Wonke umntu okhangela umntu oyinkazana, ukuba amkhanuke, uselemkrexezile entliziyweni yakhe.
Inguqulelo eyandisiweyo ithi: Kodwa ndiyanixelela ukuba nabani na ojonga umntu obhinqileyo kakhulu ukuba amrhalele (eneminqweno emibi, ukuba neminqweno engathethekiyo engqondweni yakhe naye) sele ekrexezile naye entliziyweni yakhe…
Kungenxa yesi sizathu ukuba i-por-nography, nangayiphi na indlela, kufuneka ithintelwe, kuba inokukhokelela kwizenzo zokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesini kunye nazo zonke izenzo zokungcola, oko kukukrexeza, uhenyuzo luyimveliso yengcinga yentliziyo, yokunikela Ukungena kwe-por-nography.
Uhenyuzo. Obu budlelwane obusondeleyo phakathi kwabantu ababini abangatshatanga; ukukrexeza kukunxibelelana ngokungekho mthethweni nomntu otshatileyo.
Ukuhenyuza nokukrexeza; Oku kukukhuthaza amalungu osondeleyo njengesenzo senkanuko; Abanye abantu bayazenza ezi zinto zingcolileyo njengenye indlela yokungabinabo abantwana okanye ukuzibophelela kuThixo.
Ukuba umkhwa wokukrexeza nokuhenyuza awupheliswanga, siza kuwela ezinzulwini zezono ezisondeleyo, ezakusisa kula manqanaba alandelayo:
1. Ubumdaka
Ubumdaka yindawo yokuziphatha yabantu abanikwe inkanuko kunye nokuziphatha okubi.
Yeha nina, babhali nabaFarisi, bahanahanisindini! kuba niyafana namangcwaba aqatywe mhlophe, ngaphandle ngaphandle amahle ngokwenene, kodwa ngaphakathi kugcwele amathambo afileyo nako konke ukungcola . UMateyu 23.27
2 . ukudlala
I-Lasciviousness ivela kwigama lesiGrike aselgeia Ebonisa ukugqitha, ukungabikho kokuzibamba, ukungcola, ukupheliswa. Obunye bobubi obuvela entliziyweni.
Aba, emva kokuphulukana nobuntununtunu babo, bazinikela ekuziphatheni okubi ngokuzingca benyanzela zonke iintlobo zokungcola . Kwabase-Efese 4.19
Aselgeia yinkanuko, konke ukungabi nazintloni, engalawulwa inkanuko, ukonakala okungapheliyo. Yenza isono emini emini ngokuzikhukhumalisa nokudelela.
Njengoko ubona, ubungqongqo be ezi izono yinkqubela. Kubizwa ngokuba sisono sokuziphatha kakubi xa umntu sele efikelele ekuziphatheni okubi kangangokuba angakwazi ukuyeka ukwenza ezi zenzo. Kukungabikho kokuthintela ngokupheleleyo, ukunqongophala kokuziphatha, iba mdaka kuyo yonke into.
I-Lewdness ayenzi nje kuphela kwindawo esondeleyo kodwa kunye nomlomo ngokutya kakhulu, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi, kunye nasiphi na isono ngokubanzi. Akukho mntu uqala ukona ngokungalawulekiyo, kodwa yinkqubo apho athi ngokuthe ngcembe aphulukane nolawulo kunye nokulawula iingcinga zakhe, umzimba wakhe, umlomo, kunye nobomi bakhe.
Iziphumo zokukrexeza
Iziphumo zokomoya zokukrexeza .
- 1. Ukukrexeza nokuhenyuza kuzisa ukufa ngokomoya, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
- Ukuba umntu ukrexeza nomfazi wommelwane wakhe, umntu okrexezayo kunye nomntu okrexezayo uya kubulawa. ILevitikus 20.10
- 2. Ukukrexeza kuya kuzisa imiphumo yethutyana nengunaphakade.
- 3. Iyakwenza njalo zisa iziphumo kwindalo yendalo njengezifo, indlala kunye nosizi; Kananjalo, iya kuzisa iziphumo zokomoya ezinje ngokwenzakala, iintlungu, ukophuka kunye noxinzelelo losapho.
- Zine. Okrexezayo usisidenge
- Okrexezayo uswele intliziyo; Owenza ezo zinto wonakalisa umphefumlo wakhe. Imizekeliso 6.32
- 5 . Umntu okrexezayo okanye nakuphi na ukuziphatha okubi ngokwesini umfanyekisiwe ekuqondeni kwakhe ngumoya wenkohliso nobuxoki; Ke ngoko, akawuqondi umonakalo awenzayo kusapho lwakhe, ebantwaneni bakhe, kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, ubukumkani bukaThixo.
- 6 . Umntu okrexezayo uwonakalisa umphefumlo wakhe; Igama elonakeleyo, kulwimi lwesiHebhere, linika umbono wokuqhekeka.
- 7. Ukukrexeza kuzisa amanxeba nehlazo.
- Amanxeba kunye neentloni uya kuzifumana. nembeko yakhe soze icinywe. Imizekeliso 6.33
- 8. Uqhawulo mtshato sesinye seziphumo ezibi esenza ukuba kuvulwe umnyango wokukrexeza.
- 9. Okrexeza nokukrexeza akazukubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo.
- Anazi na ukuba abangemalungisa abayi kubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo? Musani ukulahlekiswa: abenza umbulo, nabakhonzi bezithixo, nabakrexezi, nezifebe, namadoda alalanayo, namasela, namabawa, namanxila, nabatshabhisi, nabaphangi, abayi kubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo. KwabaseKorinte 6: 9-10
- Isibhalo sisixelela ngokucacileyo ukuba umntu okrexezayo akanakubudla ilifa ubukumkani bukaThixo ngaphandle kokuba aguquke.
- 10. Abakrexezi nabenza umbulo baya kugwetywa nguThixo.
- Mawubekeke wonke umtshato nomandlalo ungadyojwa, kodwa abenza umbulo nabakrexezi baya kugwetywa nguThixo. (Hebhere 13:14)
- Shumi elinanye. Abo bakrexezayo banokulahlekelwa ziintsapho zabo, kuba kuphela kwesizathu seBhayibhile sokuqhawula umtshato.
Iziphumo zomthetho zokukrexeza
Sesiphi esona sizathu siphambili nesisemthethweni sokuqhawula umtshato? Kukuthini ukukrexeza kunye nokuhenyuza zizenzo ezenziwayo ezenza ukuba kuthathwe isigqibo. Kwizibhalo esinazo; UYesu uphendula ngokukrexeza eBhayibhileni ngoku kulandelayo:
Wathi kubo: Waphendula Waphendula uYesu wathi, UMoses wakuvumela ukuba uqhawule umtshato nabafazi bakho ngenxa yokuba lukhuni kweentliziyo zenu. Kodwa kwakungenjalo kwasekuqaleni. Ndithi kuni nabani na oqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe, ngaphandle kokuziphatha kakubi, aze atshate omnye umfazi uyakrexeza. UMateyu 19: 8-9
Iziphumo zoqhawulo-mtshato ngezizathu zokukrexeza kunye nohenyuzo
Abantu bokuqala ukwenzakala ngokwasemphefumlweni ngabo bosapho lwethu. Baninzi abantwana abaneentlungu ezintliziyweni zabo kuba umama okanye utata ushiye nomnye umntu. Iziphumo zoku ziyabakhathaza abantwana.
Abantwana ngabona bachaphazeleka kuqhawulo-mtshato: uninzi lwabo lwabandakanyeka kwiziyobisi, baba yinxalenye yamaqela emigulukudu okanye amaqela emigulukudu, kwaye abanye babhubha.
Abanye baba bantwana bakhula benenzondo, ingqumbo nentiyo ngakubazali babo. Baninzi kubo abathi ekugqibeleni bazive belahliwe, bengamalolo, okanye besebenzisa iziyobisi; Eyona nto ibuhlungu kukuba, xa bekhula, bayakrexeza nakwimitshato yabo kuba esi sisiqalekiso esivela kwilifa lezizukulwana ngezizukulwana.
Kananjalo sifumanisa ukuba maninzi amanxeba atyaliweyo entliziyweni yomnye wabatshati, njengokungaxoleli, ukuba krakra, nokuzonda, ukungcatsha nokungathembeki.
Kubangela ihlazo kusapho, ihlazo kwivangeli, ihlazo, kunye nehlazo kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi. Ukuchasana nokukrexeza akuphindi kucinywe.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ndikuncedile.
Iziqulatho
- Ithini iBhayibhile ngokuxolela ukungathembeki?
- Iimpawu zomtshato wamaKristu:
- Iziphumo zokungathembeki kumtshato wamaKristu:
- Ukuxolela ukungathembeki kumtshato wamaKristu:
- Yintoni ukukrexeza?
- Iindinyana ezivela kwi-Adultery
- Iindidi zokukrexeza
- 1. Ukukrexeza kwamehlo
- 2. Ukukrexeza kwentliziyo
- 3. Ukukrexeza kwengqondo
- 4. Ukukrexeza komzimba
- Sithini isimo sengqondo somntu ophila ekukrexezeni nasekuhenyuzeni?
- Unokwenza ntoni ngabantu abaphila ngokukrexeza nokuhenyuza?
- Xa isono senziwa rhoqo
- Kutheni le nto kukho iingxaki zezono zakho?
- Zithini iziphumo zokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo, njengokuhenyuza nokukrexeza?
- 1. Ubumdaka
- 2. ukudlala
- Iziphumo zokukrexeza
- Iziphumo zomthetho zokukrexeza
- Iziphumo zoqhawulo-mtshato ngezizathu zokukrexeza kunye nohenyuzo