Ithini iBhayibhile ngentlungu yentliziyo?
Zibambise nesithandwa sakho esofeni phantsi kwengubo yoboya ngelixa ubukele 'Uthando, Ngokwenyani' ixesha lamashumi amabini. Uthando luyinto entle kakhulu de lude luphele. Ngenyembezi emehlweni akho, uhlala ecaleni komhlobo wakho osenyongweni esitya isitya sikaBen & Jerry esingenanto. Kodwa… Uthini uthixo ngobudlelwane obuqhekekileyo?
UThixo uyayazi indlela oziva ngayo
Ngaba uyazi ukuba uThixo uhlala ethelekisa intlungu yakhe ngabantu abaseBhayibhileni kunye nentlungu yothando? Umzekelo, ngamanye amaxesha abaprofeti bathelekisa u-Israyeli nomtshakazi okopayo. Kuvakala ngendlela efanayo naleyo uziva ngayo uThixo xa elahlwa ngabantu. Ukuba wophukile ngenxa yentliziyo ebuhlungu, ngenxa yoko ulungelelana noThixo. Kuyakhuthaza kakhulu ukwazi ukuba uyayiqonda intlungu yakho!
Ilizwi likaThixo linamandla amakhulu.
Indinyana eyaphukileyo yebhayibhile. Cela uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba akuncede ukuba uziphinda ezi zibhalo ngokuvakalayo okanye ngokuzithethela. Cwina yonke into onayo, kuba ukuba intliziyo yakho igcwele inyani, uThixo uya kukusikelela ngokutyebileyo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, intliziyo yakho ivulekile ukuba ikholelwe kwaye ithembele kwaye ke ngoko uthathe amanyathelo afanelekileyo kwaye wamkele kuThixo.
'Icebo lam licacile: Ndifuna ulonwabo hayi ingozi kubantu bam. Ndiyathembisa ngekamva elizayo. Ondifuna ngentliziyo nangomphefumlo uya kundifumana. Ndiyathembisa ukuba ndizakufumaneka. (Yeremiya 29:11)
‘INkosi ngumalusi wam, andiyi kuswela nto. Undizisa kumadlelo aluhlaza, mandiphumle ngasemanzini. Undinika amandla kwaye undikhokele kwiindlela ezikhuselekileyo, njengoko wathembisayo. Nangona ndihamba kwintlambo emnyama emnyama, akukho mfuneko yokoyika nayiphi na ingozi, kuba wena Nkosi unam, umsimelelo wakho nentonga yakho ziyandikhusela. Nkosi, undimemela etafileni yakho, Abachasi bam mabajongane nayo; Ugcoba intloko yam ngeoyile (umfanekiso woMoya oyiNgcwele) uyigcwalisa indebe yam de iphuphume. Ndiva ukulunga kwakho nothando lwakho, bonke ubomi bam, ndingaphila endlwini yakho, kwiintsuku ezizayo. ‘
(INdumiso 23)Cela nje uya kwamkela, kwaye uvuyo lwakho luya kugqibelela.
(UYohane 16:24)‘UThixo ulungile, unomonde kwaye unothando. Ususa izono zethu, azilahle kude kuthi, kude kwempuma njengasentshonalanga. Njengoyise obathandayo abantwana bakhe, ngoko ke uyabathanda abo bamnqulayo. Uyabazi ubuthathaka bethu, Uyazi ukuba siluthuli nje.
(Kwindumiso 103)
Banokusebenzisa ezinye zazo
Ewe ngokwenene! EBhayibhileni kukho amabali aliqela malunga nentliziyo ebuhlungu (ngaphandle kwazo zonke iintlobo zeentsingiselo ezingumqondiso, kodwa bhomboloza kuba iphumile). Umzekelo ibali likaTamare noAmnon. UAmnon wayethandana noTamar ngobuhle kwaye wayengafuni kwanto ngaphandle kokuba naye. Enkulu iyelenqe weza xa wamdlwengula kwaye ngequbuliso wamfumana ukungamthandi.
Oku kwakungaqondakali kuTamar kwaye waziva phuke intliziyo njengokuba wayemphosa ngaphandle komnyango. Umzekelo, ithi ku-2 Samuweli 13: Xa umkhonzi ka-Amnon wayemkhuphele ngaphandle esitratweni waza watshixa ucango emva kwakhe, wagalela uthuli entloko (oko kwakungumqondiso wosizi eBhayibhileni!) Kwaye wakrazula ilokhwe yakhe enemibala emininzi. Uye wazibamba entloko wancwina wagoduka.
Awusoze ube wedwa (nangona uziva njalo)
Intliziyo kaThixo iyachukumiseka kwabo banentliziyo eyaphukileyo! Oku kuhlala kuchazwa ngokucacileyo eBhayibhileni, njengakwi Iindumiso 51 : Umbingelelo kaThixo ngumoya owaphukileyo; wena, Thixo, akuyi kuyidela intliziyo eyaphukileyo netyumkileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuba intliziyo kaThixo igcwele inceba.
Wathumela uYesu ukuba angathwali kuphela isohlwayo sezono zethu, kodwa nokuba avakalise iVangeli yoSindiso. Oko kuthetha ukuba uYesu weza kuphilisa abagulayo, kodwa nokuthuthuzela abo banentliziyo eyaphukileyo!
Intliziyo eyaphukileyo inokubangela usizi kwaye ikwenze ugule.
Ubudlelwane yeyona nto intleNguThixousinike emhlabeni. Kungenxa yokuba nguThixouthando, Usidale njengabantu abanothando abafuna uthando ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into. Akukho nto isenza sonwabe, somelele kwaye sisempilweni njengothando. Uthando sesona sipho sikhulu sikaThixo kuthi. Ukuba nentliziyo eyaphukileyo kunokwenza umntu abe lusizi kakhulu ade agule. Ufumana njani ukuphiliswa?
Kuba siyazi ukuba sinokulufumana uthando kubudlelwane kunye neqabane, sihlala silulangazelela.
Bambalwa kuthi, nangona kunjalo, abaphumeleleyo ekudibaneni neqabane elifanelekileyo lobomi kwangoko. Uninzi luye lwaba nobudlelwane obuninzi, ngelishwa lwaphuka, emva koko sashiyeka sinentliziyo eyaphukileyo. Mna ndinobuhlobo obahlukeneyo ngaphambi kokuba ndidibane nomfazi wam omangalisayo ngendlela emangalisayo. Kodwa kwafuneka ndijongane nokuphoxeka okubuhlungu ngaphambi kokuba eze kum. Emva kweminyaka embalwa, uThixo waqala ukuthetha nentliziyo yam ukuba ndikhangela uthando nomntu ngelixa abantu bengenako ukundinika olu thando.
UThixo undibonisile ukuba nguye kuphela onokundinika uthando ebendilufuna.
Emva koko ndaqala ukuqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba uThixo UTHANDO. Usidale njengabantu abathi Okokuqala kufuneka uthando Kwaye ngubani oya kuthi enze yonke into ebomini bethu ukufumana olo thando. Kodwa abantu baswele kwaye abafezekanga njengathi. Ukuba sifuna ukuzalisa iintliziyo zethu ngothando lomntu, siya kudana kakhulu.
NguMthombo wothando kuphela, uThixo ngokwakhe, onokuzalisa iintliziyo zethu ngothando oluhlala luhleli.
Ndihlala ndibaleka isizungu, kubudlelwane namantombazana. Kuphela kuxa ndaye ndanesibindi sokuzinikela kuthando lukaThixo apho ndafumana uvuyo endandisoloko ndilulangazelela. Kwakunzima kakhulu, kuba ndandingamazi uThixo ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndazi ukuba lukhulu kangakanani uthando lwakhe ngam.
Ngoku ndiyazi ukuba ayikho enye into emangalisa njengokuthanda uThixo. Ngoku ndiyayibona indlela ethambile kwaye emnandi ngayo intliziyo yakhe nokuba, nangona ebungcweleni, amandla kunye nobukhulu, ngaphezu kwento yonke uthando kwaye unqwenela kakhulu ukwabelana nothando lwakhe nathi.
Emva kokuba ndiqale ndizalise iimfuno zam zothando nothando lukaThixo, ndaye ke ndinesiseko esomeleleyo sentliziyo yam, uThixo angandilungiselela ukudibana neqabane lam lobomi. Ngaphambi kokuba le ntlanganiso iqhubeke, nangona kunjalo, kwafuneka andikhulule iinkumbulo kunye noqhakamshelwano lweemvakalelo nobudlelwane bangaphambili. Ndidibanise ingqondo yam, umphefumlo wam kunye nomzimba wam kumantombazana. UThixo undibonisile ukuba kufuneka ndikhululeke kwezi ntambo, kuba zingangumqobo kwiqabane lam lobomi.
Ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwamaKristu luchaphazeleka koku, ndibeke amanyathelo aliqela asebenzayo apha ngezantsi okukunceda ukuba ubuyele kwintliziyo yakho eyaphukileyo.
Ndiyaqonda ukuba ezinye zezi ngcebiso zinokuvakala zingaqhelekanga kuwe. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uyithathe kum ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba le ndiyichazayo zizinto eziyinyani ezibalulekileyo, ngelishwa, bambalwa abantu abazaziyo. Siphila ngokungakhathali kakhulu kwaye sixhalabile kakhulu ngezinto zasemhlabeni, ezibonakalayo, ngaphandle kokuqonda ukuba ngumlinganiso womoya olawula yonke into. Thatha umzuzwana uhambe ngala manyathelo. Sele ndifumene ubungqina obuninzi kubantu ababekhululwe kakhulu kwaye baphiliswa.
1) Yaphula ibhondi yomphefumlo
IBhayibhileibonisa ukuba umntu ungaphezulu kakhulu komzimba. Singumoya, sinomphefumlo kwaye sihlala emzimbeni. Ubomi bakho beemvakalelo benzeka emphefumlweni wakho. Ukuba unobudlelwane nomnye umntu, nokuba ungokwesondo okanye ngokweemvakalelo ngokunzulu, unxibelelwano luyakwenziwa phakathi kobomi bakho beemvakalelo kunye nobomi beemvakalelo bomnye. Umphefumlo wakho unxibelelene nomphefumlo womnye. Kwiimvakalelo zabo abantu abaninzi bahlala ngokunxibelelana nomntu abangasenabudlelwane naye. Oku kunokubangela uvakalelo olunzulu lwentlungu kunye nelahleko.
Ukuba usenemvakalelo yokuba ulangazelela umntu wakudala, kulungile ukuba wophule umphefumlo. Uyenza loo nto ngomthandazo nangegunya lokoUYESU khristuunike wonke umntu okholwayo kuye. Igama likaYesu Chistus lelona gama liphezulu ezulwini nasemhlabeni, itsho iBhayibhile. Xa uthandaza, uthandaza egameni likaYesu, ukuba uqhawule yonke imixokelelwane yomphefumlo angayifuniyo uThixo, ukuze ubenakho ukukhululeka. Uyenza njani lonto?
Thetha phandle uqinisekile ukuba ngegama likaYesu Krestu wophula umphefumlo kunye nolwalamano lwangaphambili. Umzekelo: Egameni likaYesu Krestu ndophula iqhina lomphefumlo phakathi kwam no (igama).
Abaninzi bafumana inkululeko emva kokuba bekwenzile oku. Ngethuba nje ukuba 'unganqumli' ubophelelo lomphefumlo kwilizwe lokomoya, ubomi bakho beemvakalelo buhlala buhlala ubotshelelwe ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile kwisoka lakho langaphambili okanye intombi. Kufana nokusika intambo okanye intambo. Unxibelelwano olungabonakaliyo olwalukho lwalunqunyulwe. Asinguye wonke umntu oqondayo ubungakanani bomphefumlo wethu, kodwa yinyani. Eli likwalinyathelo elibalulekileyo, ukuba ufuna ukuphilisa intliziyo yakho eyaphukileyo.
2) Khumbula onke amasuntswana entliziyo yakho
Inqanaba lesibini lomphefumlo abaninzi abangalaziyo, kodwa ngokwenyani liyinyani, kukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba inxenye yakho ihlale ngasemva nenye. Unxibelelaniswe kakhulu nesiqu sakho sangaphakathi kwaye unike into yakho komnye umntu. Emthandazweni kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhumbule loo nxalenye yakho. Umzekelo, ungathandaza oku: Egameni likaYesu Krestu, ndibiza onke amalungu am ashiyekileyo (gcwalisa igama)! Ungayenza loo nto emva kokuba uqhekeze iqhina lomphefumlo.
Kuqala unqumle uqhagamshelo lokomoya kwaye emva koko ubuyisele kwakhona isiqwenga sakho osinike omnye.
Abanye banokukufumanisa oku kungumnqa kuba ngekhe uve ngako ngaloo ndlela ngaphambili. Kodwa iyasebenza. Ibhayibhile ithetha ngezinto zasemoyeni ezinamandla ngaphezu kwezinto ezibonakalayo. Uyazinika, intliziyo yakho, umphefumlo wakho, iimvakalelo zakho, isiqu sakho sangaphakathi komnye. Xa ushiya inxalenye yentliziyo yakho ihlala komnye umntu. Khumbula yonke into oyithumeleyo kwaye uphinde uthumele yonke into oyibuyileyo kuye. Yenza oku ngokuvakalayo kwaye egameni likaYesu Krestu. ‘Egameni likaYesu Kristu ndibiza yonke indawo yam (igama). Ndithumela zonke iinxalenye (zegama) kuye. Yenza loo nto kuye wonke umntu obenobudlelwane naye.
3) Sukugcina iinkumbulo
Ukukhumbuza iinkumbulo, ezinje ngeefoto, izipho, impahla, imiyalezo kunye nokunye, sisizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba kutheni abantu bengakufumani ukuphiliswa kwiintliziyo zabo ezaphukileyo. Abanye abantu bahlala kwaye balilela ubomi, kuba babambelele kwiinkumbulo. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana unyango, yiba ngqongqo kwaye ucoce inqanawa yakho kakuhle. Xa ndandinobudlelwane obungandenzelanga nto, umntu othile wathi la mazwi asindisa ubomi kum: Kuya kufuneka ubeke i-MES kuyo. Ixhwele elipholileyo lenza amanxeba anukayo. Kuphela ukuba wophula ngokupheleleyo uya kukhululeka.
Ukuba ugcina into komnye umntu, uya kugcina ubudlelwane kwaye awusoze ukhululeke ngokupheleleyo kolo lwalamano.
Ukuthanda iinkumbulo zomnye umntu kunokuba lolo hlobo lokukrexeza. Awumtshati loo mntu, kodwa ugcina ulwalamano olomeleleyo lweemvakalelo. Mkhulule omnye umntu uzikhulule. Cima i-hard drive yakho kwaye uqalise kwakhona. Qaphela: ngokuchanekileyo zizinto ozixabise kakhulu eziqinisekisa ukuba ibhondi iyaqhubeka nokubakho. Ke zibeke kude ezo nkumbulo ukuba uncamathele kuzo ngokweemvakalelo.
4) Melana neengcinga
Yintoni ehlupha abaninzi emva kobudlelwane obuqhekekileyo ziingcinga zamaxesha okonwaba awayenamava kunye. Ukuba unika ezo ntlobo zeengcinga indawo, zenza umqobo ekukhuleni kwakho kwiqabane lakho lobomi. Musa ukunika indawo iinkumbulo ezinjalo. Sukunikezela kutyekelo lokulangazelela ixesha lokonwaba, kuba oko kubangela kuphela iintlungu. Yalatha iingcinga zakho kubudlelwane bakho bangaphambili. Ungaguquguquki nakule nto.
5) Nika uxolelo
Into yesine yokunyanga intliziyo yakho luxolelo. Kubalulekile ukuba uzixolele ngokupheleleyo kunye naloo mntu kwiimpazamo ezenzekileyo.
Ukuxolela yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze uchache.
Nokuba umntu ukuxhaphazile: ukuba awuxoleli, inxeba liza kuqhubeka likho. Ke ngoko, xolela enye kunye nawe. Yenza loo nto ngokuthe ngqo, ngokuchaza amagama kunye neemeko. Yenza ukuxolela njengekhonkrithi kwaye kunikwe iinkcukacha kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Oko kukukhulula kwintlungu kunye nokukrakra okubangelwa kukuphoxeka okukhulu.
Inokukunceda ukuthatha iphepha uze ubhale phantsi yonke into ekucaphukisayo. Emva koko yiya emthandazweni nela phepha njengesikhokelo, uze udwelise yonke into ngokwezihloko uze uthi (ngokukhethekileyo ngokuvakalayo) kuYesu Krestu: Nkosi Yesu, ndiyakuxolela (igama) lika (uluhlu lwazo zonke). Leyo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokucoca indlu yakho yangaphakathi. Kufana nokucoca ubumdaka. Ugcina ukucoca okukhulu entliziyweni yakho kwaye ususa yonke intlungu nosizi. Akuyamkeli into eyenzekileyo, kodwa uyakuthintela ekulaleni ebomini bakho njengengxaki. Ngokuxolela ubeka izinto kude kwaye uzikhulule.
6) Cela uxolelo
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba wenze into eye yakhathaza omnye umntu, yiba nesibindi sokucela uxolo. Ukuzithoba yeyona nto unokuyenza. Iphula ikratshi lakho kwaye izisa unyango oluninzi, kokubini nakuwe nakwabanye abantu. UThixo uyihlonipha le nto ngokumangalisayo.
Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abathembekileyo abanokuthi uxolo. Ukanti leyo yeyona nto ingcwele onokuyenza njengomntu.
Iphula ububi obuninzi kwaye ivule umnyango omkhulu wokuphilisa kunye nentsikelelo kaThixo. Kuthatha umzamo othile, oqinisekisa kuphela ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani… Ikratshi litshabalalisa kakhulu ebomini bethu. Kakhulu… Ukuba unokuthi uxolo, uvula izulu… Ke nyaniseka kakhulu kuThixo, kwisiqu sakho nakummelwane wakho.
Cela uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba akukhumbuze ngayo yonke into eyenzakalisa omnye umntu. Bhala ezi zinto phantsi. Emva koko hlanganisa sonke isibindi sakho kwaye ubuze (ngokubhaliweyo, ngomnxeba okanye ngobuqu) uxolelo ngala manqaku apho wenzakalise omnye. Uya kubona ukuba imimangaliso iyenzeka xa usenza lonto. Bambalwa abakwenzayo kwaye yenye yezona zinto zibuhlungu emhlabeni, ukuba abantu bahlala benekratshi okanye boyike ukucela uxolo komnye nomnye. Ukuba uyakwenza oku, uThixo uya kukusikelela ngokumangalisayo.
7) Sikelela enye
Inyathelo emva kokunika kunye nokucela uxolelo kukusikelela omnye ngentliziyo yakho yonke ngako konke ukulunga uThixo afuna ukusinika kona sonke. Nokuba unomsindo okanye ukhathazekile: sukuvumela ingqumbo okanye ubukrakra bungene entliziyweni yakho. Umsindo ngumntu kwaye ungayicwangcisa ngokukhuselekileyo. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ufikelela kwinqanaba lokuba umxolele umntu ngentliziyo iphela kwaye unqwenela ukulunga. Oko kuzisa ukuphilisa okunzulu entliziyweni yakho. Ukuba omnye ukwenzakalisile, awuwamkeli amazwi kunye nezenzo, kodwa ukhetha ukoyisa ububi ngokulungileyo. Sikelela enye, ngokulunga kukaThixo. Emva koko uThixo angakusikelela ngokutyebileyo.
Musa ukubuyekeza ububi ngobubi; ukuba ubizwa ngamagama, sukungxolisa. Hayi, kunoko ninqwenelela abantu okuhle; ke wena uyakwamkela okuhle uThixo akubizele kuko.(1 Petros 3: 9)
8) Thembela kuThixo
Eyona nto inzima kuthi sonke yileemva kokotnguThixoukuba uya kusonwabisa ngokwenene. Ukanti uThixo akayonto ngaphandle kothando, uvelwano, ukuqonda, uxolelo, imfesane, ukubuyiselwa, ithemba, njl. Iingcinga zakho zivimba ubabalo lukaThixo oluninzi. Oko kusebenza kuwo onke amaKrestu kwihlabathi liphela, ngawo onke amaxesha.
Iingcinga zakho ziyeke ukuhamba kothando lukaThixo kunye nokulunga.
Inye kuphela indlela yokutshintsha kukuthatha iLizwi likaThixo. Apha ngezantsi ndikunika ezinyeImibhalo yeBhayibhileenokukunceda ungene nzulu ungeneUthando lukaThixo, ukulunga, ukuqonda nokuxolela. Ukuba uyenza rhoqo loo nto kwaye uyenze umkhwa wobomi, uyakumangaliswa yindlela amandla kaThixo aya kukwenza ngayo ekugqibeleni.
7) Fumana umthandazo wokuphilisa
Tyelela iintlanganiso zamaKristu apho abantu banokukuthandazela ukuba uphilise intliziyo yakho eyaphukileyo. Sihlala silungiselela iinkomfa, apho amakhulu abantu aye khona kwaye uninzi luchukumiseka ngendlela etshintsha ubomi luthando lukaThixo. Akukho nto ilunge ngakumbi yokuphilisa intliziyo yakho kunokuba uzaliswe luthando lukaThixo.
Iziqulatho
- Ithini iBhayibhile ngentlungu yentliziyo?
- UThixo uyayazi indlela oziva ngayo
- Ilizwi likaThixo linamandla amakhulu.
- Banokusebenzisa ezinye zazo
- Awusoze ube wedwa (nangona uziva njalo)
- Phuke intliziyo
- Intliziyo eyaphukileyo inokubangela usizi kwaye ikwenze ugule.
- Kuba siyazi ukuba sinokulufumana uthando kubudlelwane kunye neqabane, sihlala silulangazelela.
- UThixo undibonisile ukuba nguye kuphela onokundinika uthando ebendilufuna.
- NguMthombo wothando kuphela, uThixo ngokwakhe, onokuzalisa iintliziyo zethu ngothando oluhlala luhleli.
- Ngenxa yokuba uninzi lwamaKristu luchaphazeleka koku, ndibeke amanyathelo aliqela asebenzayo apha ngezantsi okukunceda ukuba ubuyele kwintliziyo yakho eyaphukileyo.
- 1) Yaphula ibhondi yomphefumlo
- Thetha phandle uqinisekile ukuba ngegama likaYesu Krestu wophula umphefumlo kunye nolwalamano lwangaphambili. Umzekelo: Egameni likaYesu Krestu ndophula iqhina lomphefumlo phakathi kwam no (igama).
- 2) Khumbula onke amasuntswana entliziyo yakho
- Kuqala unqumle uqhagamshelo lokomoya kwaye emva koko ubuyisele kwakhona isiqwenga sakho osinike omnye.
- 3) Sukugcina iinkumbulo
- Ukuba ugcina into komnye umntu, uya kugcina ubudlelwane kwaye awusoze ukhululeke ngokupheleleyo kolo lwalamano.
- 4) Melana neengcinga
- 5) Nika uxolelo
- Ukuxolela yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ukuze uchache.
- 6) Cela uxolelo
- Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abathembekileyo abanokuthi uxolo. Ukanti leyo yeyona nto ingcwele onokuyenza njengomntu.
- 7) Sikelela enye
- 8) Thembela kuThixo
- Iingcinga zakho ziyeke ukuhamba kothando lukaThixo kunye nokulunga.
- 7) Fumana umthandazo wokuphilisa
- Ngaba uThixo uyakuxolela ukukrexeza kwaye uyayamkela ubudlelwane obutsha?
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