Ngaba umtshato ongabelani ngesondo ziibhayibhile zoqhawulo mtshato?
Ubumbini obusondeleyo bukuchukumisa ukuya kubomi bakho. Cinga ngamaxesha apho wenza uthando kwindawo ekhuselekileyo ngokugqibeleleyo kwaye ungenalo naluphi na uhlobo lwetyala. Umbulelo omkhulu emva koko. Imvakalelo yokugqibelela. Kwaye ukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo: oku kuvela kuThixo. Yindlela awayeyithetha ngayo phakathi kwethu.
Iivesi ezibalulekileyo ze-7 malunga nomtshato kunye nezesondo
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Umtshato wamaKristu ongabelani ngesondo
1. AmaHebhere 13: 4
Wubeke umtshato kuzo zonke iimeko, kwaye ugcine umandlalo womtshato ucocekile, kuba abakrexezi nabakrexezi baya kumgweba uThixo.
Eyona nto icace gca eBhayibhileni kukuba ukuba neentlobano zesini ngaphandle komtshato kuthathwa njengesono. Umandlalo womtshato kufuneka ubonwe njengento engcwele kwaye ihlonitshwe ecaweni, nokuba oku akunjalo kwilizwe liphela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akukho kumajelo eendaba.
1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 1-2
Ngoku iingongoma ondibhalele zona. Uthi kulungile ukuba indoda ayilali nomntu obhinqileyo. Kodwa ukuthintela uhenyuzo, indoda nganye kufuneka ibe neyayo umfazi kwaye wonke umfazi eyakhe.
Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha kwicandelo lezesondo liwile kakhulu kule minyaka ingamashumi amahlanu idlulileyo. Into ebikade ibonwa njengamanyala ngoku iboniswa kwiibhodi zezibhengezo. Ingongoma kaPaul kukuba akulungile ukuba ube nobudlelwane bezesondo kunye namadoda nabasetyhini. Ewe, kunjalo, malunga nobudlelwane ngaphandle komtshato, yiyo loo nto echaza ngokucacileyo ukuba kulungile ukuba wonke umntu abe nomfazi wakhe kwaye wonke umfazi abe neyakhe indoda.
3. ULuka 16:18
Lowo umalayo umfazi wakhe, azeke wumbi, uyakrexeza; nomntu wonke ozeka owendileyo, uyala.
UYesu ukwenze kwacaca ngezihlandlo ezininzi ukuba nabani na ophazamisa umfazi wakhe umqhubela ekukrexezeni-ngaphandle kokuba kukho umanyano olungagunyaziswanga, kwaye nabani na otshata umfazi owaliweyo uyakrexeza (Mat 5:32). Into ebalulekileyo kukwazi, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukukrexeza nokuziphatha okubi nako kuyenzeka entliziyweni nasengqondweni yakho.
4. Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 5
Musani ukwala omnye nomnye eluntwini, okanye kuya kufuneka ukuba niyavuma ukuba nizinike ixesha lokuthandaza. Hlanganani kwakhona; Ngaphandle koko, uSathana uya kusebenzisa ukungakwazi kwakho ukuzeyisa ukukuhenda.
Ngamanye amaxesha, izibini ziyalwa kwaye zisebenzisa isondo njengohlobo lokohlwaya okanye ukuziphindezela kumaqabane abo, kodwa oku ngokucacileyo sisono. Asikokwabo ukwala amaqabane abo ngokwesondo, ngakumbi ngenxa yengxoxo. Kule meko, omnye uhendeka ngokulula ukuba abelane ngesondo nomnye umntu.
5. UMateyu 5:28
Kwaye nditsho: wonke umntu ojonga umfazi kwaye amnqwenele, sele ekrexezile naye entliziyweni yakhe.
Esi sisicatshulwa apho uYesu athetha ngemvelaphi yesono; konke kuqala ezintliziyweni zethu. Xa sijonga ngovuyo komnye umntu ongelilo iqabane lethu kwaye siyiyeke iminqweno yethu yesondo, kuyafana nokukrexeza uThixo.
6. 1 Umbala 7: 3-4
Indoda ifanele imnike okumfaneleyo umfazi wayo, njengokuba umfazi enika indoda yakhe. Umfazi akanakulawula owakhe umzimba; kwaye indoda ayilawuli umzimba wayo, kodwa ngumfazi.
Le yindima apho uPawulos asixelela khona ukuba asingekhe sali ngesondo ngenxa yengxoxo.
7. IGenesis 2: 24-25
Yile ndlela indoda izinxibelela kuyise nakunina, kwaye inamathele emfazini wayo, abo iba ngomnye wayo emzimbeni. Baye bobabini behamba ze, indoda nomfazi wayo, kodwa bengenazintloni omnye komnye.
Ndihlala ndikufumanisa kuyinto engaqhelekanga ukuba sihlala sisoyika ukubonwa ze, ngaphandle kobukho beqabane lethu. Abantu baziva beneentloni xa bebonwa beze ngabanye kuba becinga ukuba yinto engaqhelekanga leyo. Kwimeko yoku, nangona kunjalo, umtshato ukutshintsha ngokupheleleyo oku. Xa ukunye neqabane lakho, uziva ngokwendalo.
1 Ngaba uqhawulo-mtshato sisicombululo?
Ukuthanda umntu kuthetha ukujonga okona kulungileyo komnye, nokuba kunxibelelene nobunzima. Abantu abatshatileyo bahlala bebizwa ziimeko ukuba baziphike. Ngokuchanekileyo xa kukho iingxaki ezinokuvela isilingo, ukukhetha indlela elula kunye nokuqhawula umtshato okanye ukutshata kwakhona ukuba iqabane lam lindishiyile. Kodwa umtshato sisigqibo ongenakuphinda usichithe, nokuba awusinanzi isazela sakho kweso sigqibo.
Yiyo loo nto ke sifuna ukukhuthaza nabani na ocinga ngokuqhawula umtshato okanye ukutshata kwakhona ukuba avule angoyiki amazwi kaYesu. U-Yesu akasibonisi nje kuphela indlela, kodwa ukwasinceda ukuba sihambe ngaleya ndlela, kwanokuba asinakucinga ngayo okwangoku.
Siza kucaphula iivesi ezininzi zeBhayibhile malunga nesihloko soqhawulo-mtshato kunye nokutshata kwakhona. Babonisa ukuba u Yesu ulindele intembeko engagungqiyo komnye nomnye eqhubeka kude kube sekufeni. Inkcazo ebanzi ngakumbi ilandela emva kwezicatshulwa.
2 Cacisa izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile malunga nomxholo woqhawulo mtshato kunye nokutshata kwakhona
Ezi zibhalo zivela kwiTestamente eNtsha zisibonisa ukuba intando kaThixo ngumtshato womntu omnye, oko kuthetha ukuba indoda enye kunye nomfazi omnye bathembekile omnye komnye kude kube sekufeni:
Wonke umntu oqhawula umtshato nomfazi wakhe aze atshate nomnye uyakrexeza. (ULuka 16:18)
Bafika abaFarisi, bambuza ukuba kuvumelekile na ukuba indoda iyalahla umfazi wayo; Waphendula ke wathi kubo, UMoses waniwisela mthetho mni na? Bathi bona, UMoses uvumile ukubhala incwadi yokwahlukana, nokumala. Waphendula uYesu wathi kubo, Ngokuba lukhuni kwentliziyo yenu, wanibhalela loo mthetho; Kodwa kwasekuqalekeni kwendalo, uThixo wabenza baba yindoda nebhinqa.
Kungenxa yoko le nto indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo; baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. Ngako oko, abasebabini, banyama-nye. Oko ke uThixo akumanyileyo, makungahlukaniswa mntu. Endlwini abafundi bakhe babuya bambuza ngayo loo nto. Athi kubo, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza kulowa. Nokuba umfazi uthe wayala indoda yakhe, wendela kwenye, uyakrexeza. (UMarko 10: 2-12)
Ke abatshatileyo ndiyayalela: ayindim, iyiyo iNkosi, ukuba umfazi akahlukani nendoda (ke ukuba uthe wahlukana nayo, makahlale angendi, okanye makaxolelaniswe nendoda yakhe); indoda mayingamali umfazi wayo. (1 KwabaseKorinte 7: 10-11)
Kuba umfazi otshatileyo ubotshiwe ngumthetho kwindoda lo gama isaphila. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba indoda ibhubhile, ukhululwe kumthetho owawubopha indoda. Ngoko ke, ukuba uthe waba kuyimbi indoda, yakubon 'ukuba indoda yakhe isadla ubomi, kothiwa ungumkrexezi. Kodwa ke, ukuba ithe yafa indoda yakhe, ukhululekile kuwo umthetho, ukuba angabi mkrexezikazi, ethe waba kuyimbi indoda. (KwabaseRoma 7: 2-3)
Sele kwiTestamente eNdala uThixo aluchasile uQhawulo-mtshato:
Kwindawo yesibini wenze oku: ukugubungela isibingelelo sikaYehova ngeenyembezi, ngokulila nangokugcuma, kuba akasayi kujikela kumnikelo wokudla okuziinkozo aze awamkele ezandleni zakho ekholiswa nguwe. Emva koko uthi: Kutheni? Ngokuba uYehova ulingqina phakathi kwakho nomfazi wobutsha bakho, lowo umnginizeleyo wena; kanti ke lidlelane lakho, ngumfazi womnqophiso wakho. Ngaba akazange enze ibe nye, nangona wayesenomoya? Kwaye kutheni enye? Wayekhangela inzala kaThixo. Ke ngoko wulumkele umoya wakho, kwaye ungaziphathi ngokungathembeki emfazini wobutsha bakho. Ngokuba uthixo uThixo kaSirayeli, Uyithiyile into yokumkhupha umkakhe, ndimgubungele ngengubo yakhe, utsho uYehova wemikhosi; Lumka engqondweni yakho kwaye ungenzi ngokungathembeki. (Malaki 2: 13-16)
3 Ngaphandle kohenyuzo / uhenyuzo?
Kwincwadi yeVangeli kaMateyu kukho izicatshulwa ezibini ( UMateyu 5: 31-32 kunye noMateyu 19: 1-12 ) apho kubonakala ngathi ukwahluka kunokwenzeka kwimeko yeempazamo zesini. Kutheni le nto singakufumani oku kubalulekileyo kwezinye iincwadi zeVangeli, nakwiileta zeTestamente eNtsha? IVangeli likaMateyu labhalelwa abafundi abangamaJuda. Njengolu hlobo lulandelayo, sifuna ukubonisa ukuba amaYuda awatolika la magama ngokwahlukileyo kunabantu abaninzi namhlanje. Ngelishwa, ukucinga kwanamhlanje kunefuthe kwiinguqulelo zeBhayibhile. Kungenxa yoko le nto kufuneka sijongane nemicimbi yokuguqulela apha. Sifuna ukuyigcina imfutshane kangangoko.
3.1 UMateyu 5:32
Inguqulelo yamazwe ahlaziyiweyo iguqulela lo mbhalo ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Kuye kwathiwa: Owala umfazi wakhe makamnike incwadi yoqhawulo-mtshato. Kodwa ke mna ndithi kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe ngaphandle kwezenzo zohenyuzo, ubangela ukuba akrexeze; nothe wazeka owaliweyo, uyakrexeza. ( UMateyu 5: 31-32 )
Igama lesiGrike iiparektos iguqulelwe apha enye (isizathu), kodwa lithetha into engaphandle, engakhankanywanga, ayifakwanga (umzekelo, iguqulela eyesi-2 kwabaseKorinte 11:28 kwi-NBV eli gama nayo yonke enye into.
Inguqulelo esondela kufutshane nombhalo wokuqala ingafundeka ngolu hlobo:
Kuye kwathiwa: Nabani na ofuna ukulahla umfazi wakhe kufuneka amnike incwadi yoqhawulo-mtshato. Kodwa ndiyanixelela ukuba nabani na owala umfazi wakhe (isizathu sokuba uhenyuzo ukhutshiwe) ubangela ukuba umtshato uqhawuke ngenxa yakhe; nothe wazeka indoda eshiyekileyo, uyakrexeza.
Uhenyuzo yayisisizathu esivakalayo sokuqhawula umtshato.
Kwimeko ye- UMateyu 5, UYesu wayebhekisa kumthetho wamaYuda nakwizithethe zamaJuda. Kwivesi 31-32 Ubhekisa kwisicatshulwa kwiDuteronomi:
Xa indoda ithathe umfazi kwaye yatshata nayo, kwaye kwenzeka ukuba ingasafumani nceba emehlweni ayo, kuba ifumene into elihlazo ngaye, kwaye iyibhalela incwadi yoqhawulo-mtshato ayinikezela esandleni sayo kunye nayo. yemka nendlu yakhe,… ( IDuteronomi 24: 1 )
Izikolo zoorabhi zelo xesha zazitolika intetho ibonakalisa into elihlazo njengokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo. AmaJuda amaninzi yayikuphela kwesizathu sokuqhawula umtshato.
UYesu uzisa into entsha.
UYesu uthi: Kukwathiwa:… Kodwa ndithi kuni… . Ngokucacileyo uYesu ufunda into entsha apha, into amaYuda angazange ayive. Kwimeko yeNtshumayelo yaseNtabeni ( UMateyu 5-7 ), UYesu uyenza nzulu imiyalelo kaThixo ngenjongo yokucoceka nothando. KuMateyu 5: 21-48, uYesu ukhankanya imiyalelo yeTestamente eNdala aze athi, Kodwa ndiyakuxelela. Kungoko, ngeLizwi lakhe, walatha kwintando kaThixo ecacileyo kwezi ndawo, umzekelo kwivesi 21-22:
‘Uvile ukuba ookhokho bakho baxelelwe ukuba: Ungabulali. Nabani na obulele umntu kufuneka aphendule enkundleni. Kodwa ndiyanixelela, wonke umntu onomsindo komnye… ( UMateyu 5: 21-22, GNB96 )
Ukuba UMateyu 5:32 U-Yesu wayethetha ukuba uyavumelana nesizathu esivunyiweyo soqhawulo-mtshato, emva koko intetho yakhe ngoqhawulo mtshato ayinakulunga kulo mxholo. Akayi kuza nento entsha. (Entsha eziswe nguYesu, yindlela, yintando kaThixo endala kanaphakade.)
UYesu wafundisa ngokucacileyo apha ukuba isizathu sokwahlukana, esasivunywa ngokubanzi ngamaJuda, asisebenzi. UYesu akasikhupheli ngaphandle kwesi sizathu ngamazwi athi isizathu uhenyuzo ayifakwanga.
Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba umntu unyanzelekile ukuba ahlale neqabane lakhe, nokuba uziphatha kakubi. Kunokude kube yimfuneko ukuba uzahlule ngokwakho ngenxa yobomi obuhluphekileyo bomlingane. Kwiimeko ezithile, ukwahlukana kunokuthatha uhlobo olusemthethweni loqhawulo mtshato. Kodwa uMnqophiso woMtshato usekho kule meko, kwaye unembopheleleko yokutshata. Oku kuthetha ukuba umtshato omtsha awunakwenzeka. Kuqhawulo-mtshato ungawuchitha uMnqophiso woMtshato kwaye omabini amaqabane omtshato angakhululeka ukuba aphinde atshate. Kodwa oko kwaliwa ngokucacileyo nguYesu.
3.2 UMateyu 19: 9
Kwimeko kaMateyu 19: 9 sibona imeko efanayo naleyo UMateyu 5 .
Kweza kuye abaFarisi bemlinga, bathi kuye, Kuvumelekile na ukuba umntu amale umfazi wakhe nangasiphi na isizathu? Uphendule ke wathi kubo, Anilesanga na ukuba owadalayo umntu kwasekuqaleni wabadala bayindoda nenkazana, wathi, Ngenxa yoko umntu womshiya uyise nonina, anamathele emfazini wakhe, bathi abo babini babe, banyama-nye; ngako oko abasebabini, kodwa banyama-nye? Oko ke uThixo akumanyileyo, makungahlukaniswa mntu.
Bathi kuye, Yini na ukuba uMoses awise umthetho wokwahlukana, amale yena? Wathi kubo, UMoses, ngenxa yobulukhuni beentliziyo zenu, uvumelekile ukuba nimlahle umkakho; kodwa bekungenjalo kwasekuqaleni. Ke mna ndithi kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe kungengaluhenyuzo, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza; nalowo utshata umkrexezi, uyakrexeza. Abafundi bakhe bathi kuye: 'Ukuba injalo le ndoda kunye nomfazi, kubhetele ungatshati (Mateyu 19.3-10).
Kwivesi 9, apho inguqulelo yeHSV icatshulwe ithi ngaphandle kohenyuzo ithi ngesiGrike: hayi ngenxa yohenyuzo . KwisiGrike kukho amagama amabini kwigama lesiDatshi. Eyokuqala ngu-μὴ / mna, kwaye elo gama likwivesi 9 yile hayi ngenxa yohenyuzo. Ihlala isetyenziswa xa izinto zithintelwe. KwiTestamente eNtsha sifumana imizekelo eliqela yokuba igama mna = hayi ngaphandle kwesenzi, esiza kuchaza ukuba simalunga nantoni, siyasetyenziswa. Kuyimfuneko ke ngoko ukucacisa kwimeko apho kungenakwenziwa khona.UYesu uchaza apha ukuba impendulo ethile kwimeko yezenzo ezigwenxa ngokwesondo akufuneki ibekho. Umxholo ubonakalisa ukuba impendulo, engafanele kubakho apho, luqhawulo-mtshato. Kuthetha oko: nokuba kwimeko yohenyuzo.
UMarko 10:12 (ocatshulwe ngasentla) usibonisa ukuba iyafana imeko eguqukayo, xa umfazi eshiya indoda yakhe.
UMarko 10.1-12 uchaza imeko efanayo naleyo UMateyu 19: 1-12 . Kumbuzo wabaFarisi, ukuba kuvumelekile na ukwahlukana nabafazi nangasiphi na isizathu, ukuqhawula umtshato. Ileta yoqhawulo-mtshato eyanikezelwa nguMosisi yayivunyelwe kuphela ngenxa yokuqaqadeka kweentliziyo zabo. Intando yantlandlolo kaThixo yayahlukile. UYesu ulungisa umthetho apha. Uhlobo olungenakuqhekeka loMnqophiso woMtshato lusekwe kulungelelwaniso lwendalo.
Indlela abasabela ngayo abafundi kuyo UMateyu 19:10 7 masibone ukuba imfundiso kaYesu ngeli xesha yayintsha ngokupheleleyo kubo. Ngaphantsi komthetho wamaJuda, uqhawulo mtshato kunye nokutshata kwakhona zazivunyelwe kwizono zesini zowasetyhini (ngokukaRabbi Schammai). Abafundi baqonda ngamazwi kaYesu ukuba ngokwentando kaThixo, uMnqophiso woMtshato awunakuphakanyiswa, nkqu kwimeko yezono zesini zowasetyhini. Benoko engqondweni, abafundi bayabuza ukuba kuyacetyiswa ukutshata konke konke.
Oku kusabela kwabafundi kusibonisa ukuba uYesu weza nento entsha ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba u Yesu ebefunde ukuba emva koqhawulo-mtshato, umyeni ebeya kuvunyelwa ukuba atshate kwakhona, ngewayekhe wafunda ngokufana namanye amaJuda, kwaye ngekungazange kubangele le mpendulo imbi phakathi kwabafundi.
3.3 Malunga nezi zicatshulwa zimbini
Zombini ku UMateyu 5:32 kwaye kwi- UMateyu 19: 9 siyabona ukuba umthetho kaMoses kwileta yoqhawulo mtshato ( IDuteronomi 24: 1 ngasemva. U-Yesu ubonakalisa kwezi ndima zombini ukuba isizathu sokuqhawula umtshato nohenyuzo asikokuthanda kukaThixo. Ukusukela umbuzo wokuchazwa kwe IDuteronomi 24: 1 yayi kubaluleke kakhulu kumaKristu awayevela ebuJudeni, ayimangalisi into yokuba sinezi ndinyana zimbini apho uYesu athi nokuba uhenyuzo alunakuba sisizathu soqhawulo-mtshato (kunye nokwenzeka koqhawulo-mtshato) ukuba uphinde utshate), unokufunyanwa kuphela kuMateyu.
Wabhala njengoko kuchaziwe apha ngasentla kumaKristu anemvelaphi yobuJuda. UMarko noLuka babengafuni ukubandakanya abafundi babo, ababevela ikakhulu kubuhedeni, benombuzo wokuchazwa kweleta yoqhawulo mtshato kwi IDuteronomi 24: 1, kwaye ke ngoko washiya la mazwi kaYesu ebhekiswa kumaJuda.
UMateyu 5:32 kwaye UMateyu 19: 9 Ke ngoko bamanyene nawo onke amanye amagama eTestamente eNtsha kwaye abathethi ngesizathu soqhawulo mtshato, kodwa bathethe okuchaseneyo, oko kukuthi izizathu zoqhawulo mtshato ezamkelwa ngamaJuda, azisebenzi.
Kutheni le nto uqhawulo-mtshato lwaluvunyelwe kwiTestamente eNdala kwaye lungasekho ngokwamazwi kaYesu?
Uqhawulo-mtshato aluzange lube yintando kaThixo. UMoses wavumela ukwahlulwa ngenxa yokungathobeli kwabantu, kuba ngelishwa yayiyinto elusizi ukuba kumaJuda kaThixo abantu bahlala bembalwa kakhulu abantu abafuna nyhani ukuphila ngokwentando kaThixo. AmaYuda amaninzi ayengathobeli. Kungenxa yeso sizathu le nto uThixo avumayo ukuqhawula umtshato nokutshata kwakhona kwiTestamente eNdala, kuba kungenjalo abantu kuya kufuneka bahlupheke kakhulu kwizono zabanye abantu.
Ngenxa yezizathu zentlalo, kwakuphantse kwayimfuneko ukuba umfazi owaliweyo atshate kwakhona, kuba kungenjalo ngekhe abenononophelo lwezinto ezibonakalayo kwaye phantse angabinakho ukukhathalelwa ngabantwana xa sele emdala. Yiyo loo nto uMoses wayalela indoda eyala umfazi wayo ukuba imnike incwadi yoqhawulo-mtshato.
Into eyayingazange yenzeke kubantu bakwa-Israyeli, yokuba wonke umntu aphile kunye ekuthobeleni, eluthandweni nakubunye obunzulu, wazalisa uYesu ebandleni. Akukho bantu bangakholwayo ecaweni, kodwa wonke umntu wenze isigqibo sokulandela uYesu ngaphandle kokulalanisa. Yiyo loo nto uMoya oyiNgcwele unika amaKristu amandla obu bomi kubungcwalisa, ukuzinikela, uthando nokuthobela. Kuphela kuxa uqondisisa ngokwenyani kwaye ufuna ukuphila umthetho ka Yesu malunga nothando lobuzalwana apho unokuqonda ubizo lwakhe lokuba akukho kwahlulwa kukaThixo kwaye kuyenzeka ukuba umKristu aphile ngoluhlobo.
KuThixo, wonke umtshato usebenza logama elinye liswelekile. Kwimeko apho omnye wabatshati efuna ukuzahlula kumKristu, uPawulos uyakuvumela oku. Kodwa aluthathi njengoqhawulo mtshato kuThixo,
Umtshato ngumnqophiso kaThixo kwaye kuya kufuneka uhlale uthembekile kulo mnqophiso, nokuba iqabane lomtshato liphule lo mnqophiso. Ukuba iqabane lomtshato elingakholwayo lifuna ukuqhawula umtshato nomKristu - nangasiphi na isizathu- kwaye umKrestu angaphinda atshate, akazukuphula ukuthembeka komtshato kuphela, kodwa uya kubandakanya iqabane lakhe elitsha kwisono sokukrexeza nokukrexeza. .
Kungenxa yokuba amaKrestu ahlala kubudlelane bepropathi njengembonakaliso yothando lwabo lobuzalwana ( KwiZenzo 2: 44-47 ), unakekelo lwentlalo yomfazi ongumKristu oshiywe yindoda yakhe engakholwayo nayo iqinisekisiwe. Ayizukuba nesithukuthezi nayo, kuba uThixo unika wonke umKristu inzaliseko enzulu yonke imihla kunye novuyo ngothando lobuzalwana kunye nobunye phakathi komnye nomnye.
5 Sifanele siyigwebe njani imitshato yobudala (ngaphambi kokuba umntu abe ngumKristu)?
Ke ngoko, ukuba umntu ukuKristu, usisidalwa esitsha: Okudlulileyo kudlulile, yabona, yonke into intsha. ( Eyesi-2 kwabaseKorinte 5:17 )
Eli ligama elibaluleke kakhulu elivela kuPawulos kwaye libonisa ukuba loluphi utshintsho olusisiseko xa umntu esiba ngumKristu. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba zonke izibophelelo zethu zobomi ngaphambi kokuba sibe ngamaKristu azisasebenzi.
nangona kunjalo, ilizwi lakho malibe nguewe kunye nohayi abe nguhayi; … ( UMateyu 5:37 )
Oku kusebenza ngakumbi kwisifungo somtshato. U-Yesu uphakamisa ukungalingani kwemitshato ngokulandelelana kwendalo, njengoko kuchaziwe ku-3.2. Uluvo lokuba imitshato eyayigqitywe ngaphambi kokuba umntu abe ngumkristu ayizukusebenza kwaye ke unokuqhawula umtshato kuba uqala ubomi obutsha njengomKristu, yiyo ke leyo imfundiso ebubuxoki nokudelela amazwi kaYesu.
Kwi 1 kwabaseKorinte 7 , UPaul uthetha ngemitshato egqitywe ngaphambi kokuguqulwa:
Ke mna ndithi kwabanye, ingeyiyo iNkosi, Ukuba umzalwana unomfazi ongakholiweyo, aze umfazi lowo avume ukuhlala naye, makangamali. Kwaye ukuba umfazi unendoda engakholwayo, aze yena avume ukuhlala nayo, makangayilahli. Kuba indoda leyo ingakholiweyo ingcwalisiwe nguye umfazi, nomfazi lowo ungakholiweyo ungcwalisiwe yiyo indoda; Kungenjalo, abantwana bakho babehlambuluka, kodwa ngoku bangcwele. Kodwa ukuba ongakholwayo ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato, makaqhawule umtshato. Umzalwana okanye udade akabotshiwe kwiimeko ezinjalo. Nangona kunjalo, uThixo usibizele eluxolweni. ( Eyoku-1 kwabaseKorinte 7: 12-15 )
Umgaqo-siseko wakhe ngowokuba xa ongakholwayo ebamkela ubomi obutsha bomKrestu, akufuneki bohlukane. Ukuba kusafika uqhawulo mtshato ( jonga 15 ), UPaul akufuneki aphinde le nto sele ekuyo jonga 11 wabhala, eyile, yokuba umKristu nokuba yedwa kufuneka ahlale nokuba kufuneka axolelane neqabane lakhe.
Iingcinga ezimbalwa malunga nemeko yangoku
Namhlanje, ngelishwa, sihlala kwimeko apho imeko yesiqhelo, njengoko uThixo wayefuna njalo, oko kukuthi umtshato apho amaqabane amabini abelana ngobomi bawo, ngokuthembeka kude kube sekupheleni kobomi, njengoko babethembisene kumsitho womtshato, sele eyona nto iphambili. Iintsapho zepatchwork ziya zisiba yimeko yesiqhelo. Oko ke kunefuthe kwiimfundiso kunye nokusebenza kweecawe ezahlukeneyo kunye namaqela ezenkolo.
Ukuze uqonde ngcono ukwala okucacileyo komtshato nelungelo lokuphinda utshate, kulungile ukuba uqwalasele ixabiso elifanelekileyo lomtshato kwisicwangciso sendalo kaThixo. Kukwabalulekile ukuba sihlale sijonga ngendlela ephathekayo indlela ekufuneka isetyenziswe ngayo imfundiso esisiseko yeBhayibhile kwimeko ethile akuyo umntu.
U-Yesu wayebuyise ukucaca kwasekuqaleni kulo mbandela, kangangokuba abafundi bakhe, ababewazi umthetho weTestamente eNdala ngoQhawulo-mtshato nokuTshata kwakhona, bothuka.
Phakathi kwamaKristu ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho abantu abavela kubuYuda okanye ubuhedeni kwaye sele benomtshato wabo wesibini. Asiboni kwiZibhalo ukuba bonke aba bantu kwafuneka bawuqhawule umtshato wabo wesibini kuba bengakhange bangene emtshatweni wabo benolwazi lokuba benza into engavunyelwanga kwaphela nguThixo, nokuba ibiyikholwa elalidla ngokwenza ube ngumJuda, ubuncinci kufanele ukuba icace into yokuba uThixo akawuboni ulungile umtshato.
Ukuba uPawulos wabhalela uTimoti ukuba umdala ecaweni unokuba yindoda yomfazi ongatshatanga ( 1 kuTimoti 3: 2) ), emva koko sibonisa ukuba abantu abaphinda batshata (ngaphambi kokuba babe ngamaKristu) abanakuba ngabadala, kodwa ukuba babeqeshwe ecaweni. Sinokwamkela kuphela lo mkhuba (wokuba abantu baqhubeke nomtshato wabo wesibini ecaweni) kuba iTestamente eNtsha iyaziwa namhlanje, yiyo loo nto ikwindawo ecacileyo kaYesu kulo mbuzo.
Ngenxa yoko, abantu abaninzi bakuqonda ngakumbi ukungachani komtshato wesibini kunangexesha lamaKristu okuqala. Kuyinyani ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uninzi luxhomekeke kulwazi lomtshato wesibini ogqitywe ngalo. Ukuba umntu uqalise umtshato wesibini esazi ukuba oko kuchasene nentando kaThixo, lo mtshato awunakubonwa njengomtshato kwintando kaThixo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ingxaki ihlala ilala nzulu;
Kodwa kusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuphanda ityala elithile ngendlela echanekileyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela ukukhangela ngokunyanisekileyo ukuthanda kukaThixo. Kananjalo xa kuthe iziphumo zolu phando luthembekileyo kukuba umtshato wesibini awunakuqhubeka, ezinye izimvo ezahlukeneyo kufuneka ziqwalaselwe. Ngokukodwa ukuba omabini amaqabane angamaKristu, umphumo awuyi kuba ngokwahlukana ngokupheleleyo. Ngapha koko, kukho imisebenzi emininzi eqhelekileyo, ngakumbi ukukhulisa abantwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo alunakunceda abantwana xa bebona ukuba abazali baqhawule umtshato. Kodwa kule meko (ukuba kugqityiwe ukuba umtshato wesibini awunakuqhubeka), ubudlelwane bezesondo abusenandawo kolu lwalamano.
7 Isishwankathelo kunye nenkuthazo
UYesu ugxininisa umtshato womntu omnye nokuba kukuthanda kukaThixo, okunokubonwa kwimpikiswano yokuba ngumntu omnye, nokuba indoda mayingalahli umfazi wayo. Ukuba indoda ithe ngasizathu sithile yamala umfazi wayo, okanye yahlukana nomfazi wendoda, abanakungena kwisivumelwano esitsha lo gama iqabane eliqhawule umtshato lisaphila, kuba umnqophiso wokuqala womtshato usebenza logama nje bephila bobabini. Ukuba ungena kwi-bond entsha, oko kukwaphula umthetho. KuThixo akukho hlulo; yonke imitshato isebenza ngokude bahlalisane bobabini. UYesu akenzi mahluko kuzo zonke ezi vesi zeBhayibhile nokuba umntu ukhutshiwe enetyala okanye engenatyala.
Ngenxa yokuba uYesu engenzi okwahlukileyo kuMarko nakuLuka, ngekhe athethe ukungabinakho nakuMateyu. Impendulo yabafundi ikwabonisa ukuba akukho okhoyo kumba woqhawulo-mtshato. Ukutshata kwakhona akunakwenzeka ukuba iqabane lisaphila.
UPawulos ujongene namatyala athile kwi 1 kwabaseKorinte 7 :
Ukuba umntu sele eqhawule umtshato xa esiba ngumKristu, kuya kufuneka ahlale engatshatanga okanye ahlangane neqabane lakhe. Ukuba ongakholwayo ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato noMkristu, umKrestu kufuneka avumele - ( jonga 15 Kodwa ukuba ongakholwayo ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato, makaqhawule umtshato. Ubhuti okanye udade akabotshelelwanga kwiimeko ezinjalo (ngokoqobo: likhoboka). Nangona kunjalo, uThixo usibizele eluxolweni.
Into yokuba umzalwana okanye udade engakhotyokiswa zityala elinje kuthetha ukuba akagwetywanga ubomi obuqhelekileyo neqabane elingakholwayo kukungoneliseki kunye nengxaki. Unokuwuqhawula umtshato-kwaye uhlale ungatshatanga.
Into engacingekiyo kubantu abaninzi ayingomthwalo onganyamezelekiyo. UmKristu unolwalamano olutsha noThixo ngoYesu Krestu. Ngenxa yoko, ujongene ngakumbi nobizo lokuba ubungcwele bukaThixo busenza kuthi. Sisibheno esiphakamileyo kunabantu abakholwayo kuMnqophiso oMdala. Ngokwenjenje sibuqonda ngakumbi ubuthathaka bethu nezono, kwaye uThixo usifundisa ukuba sakhe amandla kobu budlelwane bunzulu na Ye ngento egqitha amandla ethu.
Ngaye akunakwenzeka. UThixo usinceda ngobudlelane nabazalwana kunye noodade okholweni olufunwa ngumKristu ngamnye: ubudlelwane nabo bamamelayo kwaye benze ilizwi likaThixo. Aba ngabazalwana noodadewethu kuKristu, usapho lwethu lokomoya, oluya kuhlala ngonaphakade. UmKristu akaze abe yedwa engenalo iqabane lomtshato. Bona nesihloko sethu malunga nobomi bamaKristu okuqala
Iziqulatho
- Ngaba umtshato ongabelani ngesondo ziibhayibhile zoqhawulo mtshato?
- Iivesi ezibalulekileyo ze-7 malunga nomtshato kunye nezesondo
- Umtshato wamaKristu ongabelani ngesondo
- 1 Ngaba uqhawulo-mtshato sisicombululo?
- 2 Cacisa izicatshulwa zeBhayibhile malunga nomxholo woqhawulo mtshato kunye nokutshata kwakhona
- 3 Ngaphandle kohenyuzo / uhenyuzo?
- 3.1 UMateyu 5:32
- 3.2 UMateyu 19: 9
- 3.3 Malunga nezi zicatshulwa zimbini
- Kutheni le nto uqhawulo-mtshato lwaluvunyelwe kwiTestamente eNdala kwaye lungasekho ngokwamazwi kaYesu?
- 5 Sifanele siyigwebe njani imitshato yobudala (ngaphambi kokuba umntu abe ngumKristu)?
- Iingcinga ezimbalwa malunga nemeko yangoku
- 7 Isishwankathelo kunye nenkuthazo