Ukubonakaliswa kobomi nothando . Ndikhumbula utitshala wam wepiyano endixelela ukuba umculo lulwimi oluqhelekileyo. Ngoku ndibeka uthando, ukulahleka kunye nentlungu kolo didi.
Nokuba singoobani, sikholelwa ntoni, okanye sihlala phi, sonke siya kuba namava athile uthando , ukulahleka kunye nentlungu ebomini bethu. Kwincoko nomphefumlo wam: Amabali kunye nokubonakaliswa ngobomi, ukufa nothando emva kokuphulukana nonyango U-Ellen P. Fitzkee ivumela ukuba siphicothe kumava abo ukuze sikwazi ukucinga ngokwethu.
Ndenze ilahleko ezintlanu kwisithuba seminyaka emithathu, ubhala watsho uFitzkee, kwaye ngandlel 'ithile, ndiyaqhubeka nokubuya kubunzulu bokuphelelwa lithemba. Wayeyazi kwasekuqaleni ukuba ngekhe abe ngumfundi ozifundeleyo wencwadi yakhe. Bendisazi ukuba ndizakube ndicinga nohambo lwam lokujongana nelahleko, iintlungu nokuphola.
UFitzkee unika inkcazo emfutshane yentshukumo kunye nokhathalelo lweNyaka eNtsha. Zombini zinempembelelo ebalulekileyo kubomi bakhe. Ngokubhekisa kwinto yangaphambili, uyavuma ukuba ezinye zezakhono zokulwa endikuphononongeyo aziqhelekanga, kodwa zinikezela ngokutshintsha kugxilwe kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ukuqonda okungcono kobukho bomntu ngokujonga ngaphakathi nokufumanisa into esoloko siyazi yona yinyani.
NdingumKristu ngoko ke ndinenkolelo eyahlukileyo, kodwa ndiyahlonipha kwaye ndiyavuma ukuba le ngamava kaFitzkee. Obu buchwephesha obuqhelekileyo yindlela ophumeza ngayo uxolo, ukugxila kunye nokunxibelelana, kwaye ufumane ithemba lakho kunye namandla xa ujongene nosizi olukhulu kunye nokusilela.
UFitzkee ukhethe ukusebenzela abanye ngexesha lomsebenzi wakhe. Ndaba ngumama wabanye endifuna ukuba nabo, ubhala. Ndikhethe amakhondo avumela ukuba ndivakalise oku, nokuba ndingutitshala, umqeqeshi, umcebisi, itheraphisti, okanye umcebisi. Apha, ngesibindi uvula umnyango wentliziyo yakhe ngokushicilela, eyindlela esetyenziswa ngokubanzi yokunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukubonakalisa, kunye nokusombulula iingxaki, nokuba umntu uyakholelwa kweziphiwo zokomoya okanye ezenkolo. Amangenelo akhe-nathi njengabafundi anokuphonononga-aveze amava akhe obuchule kunye nawakhe, isazisi sakhe, ukufumanisa kwakhe, iintlungu zakhe, uvuyo kunye neminqweno yakhe. Sifunda ngamanye amava akhe njengomcebisi wesikolo, nanjengomama kwizinja ezimbini.
UFitzkee ukwabonisa ubudlelwane bakhe bangaphambili, obukhoyo kunye nobalo bexesha elizayo. Usebenzisa izikhokelo zomoya, ukubhala okuhanjisiweyo, kunye nezinye iindlela ezinokuthi zizwakala ziyimfihlakalo kwabanye abafundi, kodwa oko uFitzkee akufumanayo kumnceda ukuba afunde ngaye. Kuba ikwabandakanya ingqalelo kunye nokugxila kwimihla ngemihla, uzimisele ukuhlala kulo mzuzu.
Ndiyazi ngokwam ukuba usizi kunye nelahleko zinamandla amakhulu ebomini bethu, zihlala zisishiya neentliziyo ezaphukileyo kunye neziva zomphefumlo. Nangona kunjalo, ndiye ndafumanisa ukuba xa uvulekele ekuphiliseni, intliziyo yakho kunye nomphefumlo wakho uya kuqalisa ukuzikhulula kabuhlungu iintlungu. Emva koko, phantse ngokumothusa, uyaqonda ukuba unamandla kunye namandla okuphila kunye nothando kwakhona.
Abakho baninzi abantu kweli hlabathi abathi ngokuzithandela bameme abantu abangabaziyo kuhambo lwabo olubuhlungu ngenxa yentlungu, kodwa uFitzkee ngomnye wabo. Ndiyabulela ngendlela asivumele ngayo ngesisa ukuba siyibone le nkqubo iqhubeka ebomini bakhe, kwaye sabelane ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu hayi kuye kuphela, kodwa nakuthi sonke.
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