Iphupha lokugxothwa kutoliko lomsebenzi kunye nentsingiselo
Indlela izinto eziyiyo, ukukhatywa ngaphandle komsebenzi yinto enqabileyo yokwenyani. Ke ukuba isithunzi sokugxothwa sikwavela nasemaphupheni akho, uya kuvuka ungonwabi kwaye ungonwabi ongazukuphela imini yonke. Kodwa zolile, kuba ukuphupha ukugxothwa akunantsingiselo iqinisekileyo njengoko kubonakala ngathi. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi intsingiselo ye- ndiphupha ngokukhululwa ?
Ukuhlala kakuhle emaphupheni
Phezolo uphuphe umphathi wakho ekugxotha emsebenzini ngeendlela ezimbi kwaye uzibone uqokelela izinto zakho ushiya iofisi uxinzelelo ungazi ukuba wenzeni. Ukuphupha ukugxothwa yenye yezona ziqhelekileyo sebenza amaphupha , kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akusishiyi kukungonwabi okungapheliyo.
Ukutolikwa kwamaphupha omsebenzi phantse kuhlala kunxulumene ngakumbi nesimo sakho sengqondo malunga nomsebenzi wakho kunokuba ujonge a iphupha lokuqala . Ke ngoko, ukuphupha ukhutshiwe emsebenzini kuthetha ukungazithembi kwakho malunga namandla akho kunye noloyiko lwakho lokungawenzi kakuhle umsebenzi wakho.
Ke ukuba uphupha nge ukugxothwa, Sukuba nexhala lokucinga ukuba ngomso awuzukuphangela, zama ukucinga ngeendawo onokuzitshintsha ukuze uzive wonwabile emsebenzini wakho kwaye unike ngaphezulu. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho uya kukwazi ukwahlula indawo yokusebenza kubasebenzi kwaye uthintele isenzo ukuba singarhubuluzi siye emaphupheni akho.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuphupha ugxothwa?
Amaphupha asebenza ukukhulula ukungabikho zingqondweni, okuhlala kusetyenziswa isimboli ekufuneka itolikwe, ayisiyonto yokwenyani njengoko sinokucinga ngamanye amaxesha, uyachaza uElías, owongeza ukuba Ngokubanzi, olu hlobo lwamaphupha lwenzeka xa sihamba umzuzwana wokungazinzi okanye ukungazithembi, hayi kuphela kwinqanaba lezoqoqosho, kuba linokuchaphazela ezinye iindawo, kwaye libonise isidingo sotshintsho lobomi.
Eyona ntsingiselo ikhonkrithi kukuba kunjalo Ibonisa isidingo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane kuyo nayiphi na indawo yobomi bethu . Ikwathetha ukuba nenkxalabo yokuphulukana namathuba okuhlangabezana neendleko esizenzileyo, ezinje ngobambiso, mboleko, njl. Kule mizuzu yokungazinzi kwezoqoqosho, abantu abanemali mboleko enikiweyo, okanye amatyala alo naluphi na uhlobo, banokuba nawo la maphupha ngenxa yokoyika ukungakwazi ukujongana nawo kwixesha elimisiweyo, utsho uElías.
Ngesi sizathu, xa uphupha ukuba umphathi wakho akutshise, inokuchaphazela eminye imimandla emibini: ubudlelwane bakho, obubonisa ukuba utshintsho luza okanye umsebenzi wakho, obonisa ukuba uyoyika ukwenza imibono emitsha, ngenxa yokoyika ukugxothwa.
Ngaba umsebenzi wakho usengozini?
Ngokomgaqo, akufuneki ichaphazele kuphela indawo yokusebenza; inokuba yiyo nayiphi na enye indawo ebomini bethu. Ngamanye amaxesha, inokubhekisa emsebenzini, ngakumbi ukuba sinobudlelwane obubi kunye noogxa bethu okanye asizukubeka izimvo ezintsha simatsha emsebenzini, ngenxa yokoyika ukuba bazakukhatywa okanye bagxothwe, wongeza uElías.
Xa ukugxothwa kuqhubeka engamkelekanga, ibonisa ukuba ukhathazekile ngemeko yakho yezemali , nokuba okwangoku awunalo ixesha elibi. Xa ingxabano ibangela ukugxothwa nomphathi wakho, bonisa isidingo sakho sokuveza izimvo, nokuba abanye abazabelani Injongo.
Ngaba liphupha eliphindaphindayo?
Zimbini iintlobo zamaphupha ezibalulekileyo ebomini bethu: ezo ziphindaphindwa amaxesha amaninzi (eziphindaphindayo) okanye ezo zivelisa ifuthe kuthi. Ezi ntlobo zimbini zezona kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kuzo. It ibonisa ukuba awukhululekanga ngendlela obuqhubeka ngayo ubomi bakho kwaye kufuneka wenze iinguqu kwinxalenye yobomi bakho, ke ngoko kufuneka uhlalutye kwaye unikele ingqalelo, ukuze wazi ukuba leliphi icala lamava ethu kubalulekile ukwenza ezo utshintsho, utsho ugqirha wengqondo.
Yintoni enokwenziwa ukuyeka ukuphupha ngokugxothwa?
Logama nje singasombululi iimeko ekubhekiswa kuzo, asizukuyeka ukuba nazo . Kufuneka sinikele ingqalelo kubomi bethu, sikhangele indawo apho sinongquzulwano okanye ukungakhuseleki ekusombululeni kwaye, xa sele isonjululwe ngokupheleleyo, bayakuyeka ezi ntlobo zamaphupha zivele. Ibhekisa kwimfuno yotshintsho kwinxalenye yobomi bethu, ekufuneka isonjululwe ukukhulula ukungazi nto kolo xinzelelo, Ugqiba ukubhala uElias.
Ezinye iintsingiselo zokuphupha ngokuphulukana nomsebenzi owahlukileyo
Iphupha lokuphulukana nomsebenzi ngenxa yezinto ozithandayo . Ukuba ungomnye wabo banoxinzelelo emsebenzini kwaye udiniwe kukuva umsindo womphathi wakho imini nobusuku, mhlawumbi nawe unalo eli phupha. Iphupha elikhululayo ukuba i-subconscious yakho ivele ukuze uyeke umsebenzi. Usenokuziva Ukuhamba okanye ukuxhaphaza. Ndikucebisa ukuba ucinge kabini ngaphambi kokuba uyenze. Namhlanje kufuneka ukhathalele umsebenzi.
Uphupha ngokugxothwa ngaphandle kwesizathu (engamkelekanga) kwaye ungenakho ukuhlala . Unexhala ngemeko yakho yezemali. Uhamba kwinqanaba loxinzelelo lwezoqoqosho. Usemhlabeni, kwaye uyazi ukubaluleka kokuzisa umvuzo kusapho lwakho. Unenyani, kwaye uyabubona ubunzima bokufumana umsebenzi omtsha.
Ukuphupha ulahlekelwa ngumsindo nomphathi. Unemibono eyahlukeneyo othanda ukwabelana ngayo nabanye nokuba abanye abathandi. Nangona ungafuni ukuphatha ilizwi lokucula ukuba ulwela iinjongo zakho, ngakumbi xa usazi ukuba ulungile. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha, esi simo sengqondo sikuphathele iintloko.
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