Ukuphupha nge ex yakho ikuphuze ikubonisa ukuba ungumntu onamathela kakhulu kwizinto zangaphambili. Oku kukumisile, ke ngekhe uthathe inyathelo elilandelayo ebomini. Kodwa oku kungayisombulula, kwaye siya kukunika ezona ndlela ungazikhetha ukuze ukufezekise.
Ngokucacileyo, xa uphupha i-ex yakho ikwanga, inxulumene neqabane lakho ebelinalo. Oko kukuthi, awungekhe ulibale, kwaye ucinga ukuba unethemba elithile. Kodwa inyani kukuba ayikho into enje ngesiqingatha esingcono, umsonto obomvu, okanye imisebenzi efanayo. Nokuba ubenobomi, ungadibana nabantu abaninzi kwaye ufumane uthando lobomi bakho kwakhona.
Eli liphupha labantu abangaphumeleliyo ukushiya elidlulileyo endaweni yalo. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo unjalo.
Eyona nto iphambili kukungazithembi. Inkqubo ye- phupha neqabane langaphambili, Apho ubona khona loo mntu, ibonakalisa loo ngongoma kakuhle kwaye inokuba nomdla kuwe. Ukongeza, i uphuphe ubuya ne ex yakho inomxholo ofana neli nqaku.
Kodwa, xa kufikwa ekuphupheni nge-ex yakho ngothando kukuncamisa, bonisa ukuba awunakulinga ukuzama izinto ezintsha ebomini bakho kuba usoyika ukusilela. Kwaye uyikhathalele kakhulu into abayithethayo ngawe.
Ngale nto, kuya kufuneka ujonge kude kubuhlobo kwaye uqale into entsha okanye umsebenzi obusoloko ukufuna. Ukuba awuphumi, ungaqala ngezinto onokuzenza ekhaya. Kodwa zama izinto ezahlukeneyo. Ngale ndlela uyakuqonda ukuba wahlukile kwabanye kwaye unokwenza izinto ezintsha ebomini bakho.
Phupha ukuba i-ex yakho iyange kwaye ikwange
Ukuphupha ukuba i-ex yakho iyamanga kwaye iyawola luphawu olucacileyo lokuba usalahlekile loo mntu. Kwaye ukuba akunjalo, oku kuthetha ukuba ufuna umntu ebomini bakho kuba uziva usengozini yokuba wedwa.
Ngokwenyani, ayonto imbi ukucinga ngaloo ndlela, kodwa kuphela ukuba awuba ngumntu oxhomekekileyo.
Ungalibali ukuba unokuzixabisa, kwaye xa ixesha lilungile, kuya kuvela umntu olungileyo.
Phupha ukuba umntu wakho wakudala akuphuze ngothando
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uphuze inkanuko nge-ex yakho, oku kuthetha ukuba unesidingo sokumangaliswa ngakumbi okanye iimvakalelo ebomini bakho.
Mhlawumbi uyadika kwaye awonwabanga bubomi onabo namhlanje. Mhlawumbi untywiliselwe kwisiqhelo kwaye awukwazi ukushiya.
Nangona kunjalo, oku kungatshintsha, kodwa ngomzamo wakho. Kungekudala uza kuba namathuba abalulekileyo, ke musa ukuchitha.
Phupha ngomyeni wakho owayekade ekuncamisa
Kwimeko yokuphupha malunga nowayesakuba ngumyeni wakho ekuncamisa, bonisa ukuphelelwa lithemba kwakho kuba ucinga ukuba awunaxesha okanye ubomi benzeka kuwe.
Ukucinga ngale ndlela kuyindalo, kodwa kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba kusenendlela ende ekufuneka uhambe ngayo kwaye nabantu bayayazi. Unephupha lokubona ukuba ungabuqala kwakhona ubomi bakho, kodwa kuya kuxhomekeka kuwe.
Kukhethwa ukuba uthathe ixesha lakho ngokwakho kwaye uqaphele ukuba lihle kangakanani ikamva lakho.
Ndiphupha umntu endandithandana naye endanga
Ukuphupha umntu owayethandana naye ekuncamiseni kukubonisa ukuba uyazithandabuza malunga nokukwazi kwakho ukuya phambili. Oko kukuthi, ukungazithembi kukuhlasela, kwaye ucinga ukuba awunakufezekisa izinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Nangona kunjalo, inyani kukuba ungumntu onako ukwenza nantoni na kwaye uthule umlomo nakubani na. Ufuna nje ukuzithemba kwaye ube nakho ukuthatha inyathelo eliyimfuneko.
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