Ingelosi yam yomgcini izama ukundixelela ntoni? Ndazi njani ukuba ngubani ingelosi yam endiyilindayo?
Yintoni iingelosi zam zifuna ukuba ndiyazi
Iingelosi zethu zihlala zisinika imiyalezo. Yeyethu, imiqondiso neempawu zengelosi zi ngamanye amaxesha akusoloko kulula ukubona nokuqonda. Kuthi bantu, kunokuba nzima ukubaqaphela ngenxa yokuxakeka kobomi bemihla ngemihla. Ngenxa yeso sizathu, iingelosi zihlala zisithumela imiyalezo efanayo abanayo kuthi amaxesha ngamaxesha, ngethemba lokuba banokusinceda kuloo nto. Kweli nqaku, ndingathanda ukukuxelela ngakumbi malunga nokuba ngabaphi abalinganiswa abakhoyo ukuze ubenokwazi ngcono abalinganiswa abaziingelosi.
Iingelosi zisinika njani imiqondiso nemiqondiso?
Iingelosi zihlala zisinika imiyalezo yazo ngendlela echuliweyo, ngezinto ezincinci esidibana nazo endleleni yethu. Esidla ngokucinga ngayo: Hee, yinto eqondakalayo leyo okanye hayi, ndiza kuyenza ngokwam. Mhlawumbi ubucinga ukuba xa udibana nento ethi ‘phantse’ ikhangeleka njengomqondiso. Kwaye ngaloo nto, phantse andithethi ngokwenyani ukuba iphantse yabonakala ngathi, kodwa ngakumbi ukuba ibingumqondiso! Umqondiso osetyenziswe yintloko yakho kamva. Yazi ke ukuba iingelosi zisinika imiqondiso ngeendlela ezininzi. Iimpawu zabo zinokuba yiyo nantoni na, ndichaze ezimbalwa ezingezantsi.
Zeziphi iingelosi ezikhona:
Ndivele ndatsho kancinciiingelosisinike imiqondiso yabo ngazo zonke iintlobo zeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Inokuba nje ufumana uphawu olungadweliswanga ngezantsi; akukho mgaqo wokuba iingelosi zikwenza njani oko. Kodwa apha ngezantsi zindlela ezisebenzisa iingelosi rhoqo.
Iintsiba zisendleleni yakho
Iingelosi ziyaziwa ngeentsiba zazo. Intwasahlobo kwindlela yakho inokuthetha izinto ezahlukeneyo. Isenokuthi iingelosi zifuna ukukuxelela into okanye zifuna ukukwazisa ukuba zinawe. Eyakhoingelosi yokukhokhelaunokukwazisa ukuba ukhona, uqondisa uthando lwakho kwaye ujonge kuwe. Intsiba evela kwingelosi yakho inokufuna ukukuxelela enye into. Rhoqo uyayazi intuitive ukuba yintoni le, kodwa iingqondo zethu ezizele ziingcinga zihlala ziyisula le mvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba ifumane ithuba lokuvela.
Ngeengelosi amanani
Ngaba uhlala uvuka ezinzulwini zobusuku kwaye ubone ixesha elifanayo kwiwotshi yealam? Okanye ngalo lonke ixesha ujonga ifowuni yakho, ubona ixesha elifanayo kwakhona, umzekelo, 18:18 okanye 22:22. Xa la manani eqhubeka ebuyela kuwe, ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo ifuna ukukunika into. Unokufumana ngakumbi malunga nentsingiselo yamanani eengelosi kweli phepha:Iingelosikunye neenjongo zazo.
Via abathunywa abangabantu
Iingelosi nazo zinokusazisa into ngabathunywa abangabantu. Aba bantu badla ngokuba ngabantu esingabazi nokubazi konke konke, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha nangabaqhelana nathi. Ngokwesiqhelo bakunika into oya kuthi cwaka ngayo emva koko, kuba awulindelanga ukuba loo mntu angathetha into efanelekileyo ngalo mzuzu ebomini bakho.
Umzekelo wobuqu
Mna ndinomzekelo obalaseleyo woku: Ndihlala kwidike, apho abantu bahlala bebaleka bedlula ngefestile yasekhitshini kunye negadi. Ukuphuma kwam egeyithini yegadi yam ndenyuka ndaya emotweni yam, inenekazi lize kum, bendilibone lidlula amaxesha amaninzi, kwaye sihlala sivalelisana. Andikabi nalo nofifi lokuba ngubani igama lakhe, kwaye andizange ndimxelele negama lam. (Alikho igama emnyango wethu, kuphela inombolo yendlu) Uye weza kum ngelixa ndifuna ukukhwela emotweni yam wandinika impama ngasemva. Wathi ndenze umsebenzi oncomekayo kwaye kufuneka ndiwulondoloze. Ndivele ndathi 'enkosi' ndimangalisiwe, wahamba ke.
Intloko yam ikwazama ukucinga ngazo zonke iintlobo zezizathu ezisengqiqweni zoku, kodwa intuition yam yathetha into eyahluke mpela ngalo mzuzu! Zininzi iindlela iingelosi ezithumela ngazo abathunywa abangabantu kuthi, ngokusebenzisa abantu esibaqhelileyo okanye ngabantu esingabaziyo abangafumanekiyo emva kokuxela umyalezo wabo. Yivulele kwaye ufumane le miyalezo inothando!
Amafu
Iingelosi zinokusazisa nangamafu ukuba zilapho. Ngamafu ngohlobo lwento ebalulekileyo kuwe ngalo mzuzu, okanye ngendlela yengelosi. Kwaye ungalibali imitha yelanga ngako konke ukukhanya kunye nobushushu bayo. Xa ukukhanya okuhle kukhanya kanye kwindawo ebalulekileyo okanye enentsingiselo kuwe, inokuba luphawu lwengelosi yakho.
Iitekisi namagama
Mhlawumbi uyayiqonda, uqhuba okanye ujikeleza kwenye indawo ixesha elide, kwaye ngequbuliso uqaphela igama okanye isicatshulwa esibhalwe kwenye indawo. Ngokukhawuleza ikunika isibindi kunye namandla ngalo mzuzu wokufunda, kwaye uziva amandla ahamba emzimbeni wakho. Iingelosi zizidalwa ezizodwa nezimangalisayo; bakwazisa izinto ngeendlela zonke. Ke xa uhlangabezana nesicatshulwa esibonakala kuwe ngalo mzuzu, enkosi iingelosi zakho ngokuthumela uthando lwabo!
Ukuphupha
Iingelosi zam ezindigcinayo zihlala zindinika izinto ngeengcinga zam. Xa silele, iingelosi zinokufikelela kuthi ngokukhawuleza kuba asikho kwiintloko zethu. Sidibene neengelosi ezisingqongileyo xa silele.
Ungawubona njani umyalezo ngephupha leengelosi zakho?
Xa ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo ikunika into ngephupha lakho, oko kuhlala kungumyalezo ocacileyo kunye nomyalezo ocacileyo. Xa usazi kwangoko xa uvuka ukuba ibiliphupha elithile, ukuba yayingumyalezo, yithathe kwiimvakalelo zakho. Kunzima ukucacisa ukuba intuition isebenza njani, kodwa uyazi nje ukuba initive xa injalo.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba emini, intloko yakho inikwa ixesha lokuzibandakanya kunye nexesha lokuza nazo zonke iintlobo zeenkcazo. Xa uvukile nje, kwaye uvuka uziva ngathi ngumyalezo, yikholelwe. Xa uvukile nje, unxibelelana ngakumbi neengelosi kunye nentliziyo yakho kunaphakathi emini. (Ayisiyiyo yokuba sinxibelelene neengelosi emini, kodwa ngenxa yemicimbi yosuku, ngokufuthi asikuqapheli oku.) Ke ngoko, zithembele wena kunye nokuqonda kwakho.
Kuyinyani ukuba xa uphuphe ingelosi, usenokuzikhumbula ezo ntsuku kamva kakuhle, ngelixa uhlala ulibale amaphupha ‘aqhelekileyo’. Mna ngokwam ndiyakhumbula amaphupha am eengelosi ukusukela kwiminyaka eyadlulayo ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje.
Ukuphefumlelwa kunye nesibindi
Xa ngequbuliso ufumana inkuthazo okanye isibindi sento oyenzayo okanye oyenzayo, enkosi ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo! Rhoqo kwenzeka oku xa siyishiya okomzuzwana kwaye singacingi ngayo. Ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo ifuna ukukunceda kwaye ikukhokele kwindlela yakho yobomi. Benza oku ngokukuthumela isibindi okanye ugqozi. Uyayazi; ngequbuliso uva amandla ukubaleka kwakhona. Okanye ngequbuliso uyazi ukuba wenzeni okanye unoluvo olugqwesileyo olwenza intliziyo yakho icule. Xa ucinga ukuba amandla akho ayenyuka, umbono uyakonwabisa kwaye ukunika inkalipho kwakhona, ke cinga ukuba kulungile. Luhlobo lweengelosi ezikungqongileyo, nobuganga bokuyifumana.
Eyakhoingelosi yokukhokhelauyayazi indlela yakho yobomi, uyazi ukuba zithini izifundo zakho kulo mhlaba. Xa ufumana ukuphefumlelwa okuvela kuThixo, yithathe ngezandla zozibini!
Umnyama
Iingelosi zikwazise ukuba zikunye nawe ngemvula. Xa umnyama ubonakala kuwe ngokungalindelekanga, kwaye uziva ngathi ngowakho ngalo mzuzu, themba loo nto!
Iimeko ezidibeneyo
Ngamanye amaxesha konke kubonakala kungahambanga, unomoya ophantsi ngokomfuziselo! Luvakalelo olukhulu ukuba yonke into ilungile. Oku kuhlala kusenzeka xa usendleleni elungileyo kwaye wenze into eyinxalenye yenjongo yobomi bakho. Kwaye, oko akuthethi ukuba yonke into ihamba kakuhle kwaye ungahlala phantsi uphumle, kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo yonke loo minyango iqhubeka ikuvulela, ihamba kakuhle, kwaye uziva ulungile. Ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo ingathanda ukukunceda ufumane indlela yakho. Xa usendleleni elungileyo, banokukwazisa ngokukuvulela iingcango. Emva koko kubonakala ngathi bayakuvulela ngokuzenzekelayo. Yazi ke ukuba iingelosi zakho ngasemva bezikusebenzela nzima!
Uyazi njani into iingelosi ezifuna ukukuxelela yona malunga neempawu kunye nemiyalezo yazo?
Wonke umntu unokuyibona imiqondiso yeengelosi zakhe. Kwaye wonke umntu ufumana imiqondiso kwiingelosi. Uyazi njani ukuba bafuna ukukuxelela ntoni? Kwaye wazi njani ukuba ngumqondiso? Abalinganiswa beengelosi bahlala begcwele amandla othando. Xa ufumana uphawu okanye umqondiso ovela kwingelosi yakho, uyazi loo nto. Intuition yakho ihlala ikuxelela ngokukhawuleza emva kokuyifumana. Emva kwemizuzwana embalwa, intloko yakho iya kuthatha kwakhona. Yazi oku. Ngokwazi ukuba i-intuition yakho inokuziva kwangoko, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uvakalelwe ngokukhwaza entlokweni yakho kwakhona, ungayithathela ingqalelo le nto. Yazi oku!
Intloko yakho ilungile kwiimpawu ezonakalisayo
Xa intloko yakho ithatha indawo, zama ukubuyela kwiimvakalelo eza kuqala kuwe! Yiyo intuition yakho! Ukuba uziva unomdla 'ewe, ngumyalezo lowo' okanye 'ewe, lo ngumqondiso!', Thembela ukuba nokuba kunganjani, intloko yakho iza emva koko. Intloko yakho ilungile ekwenzeni inkolelo yakho kumqondiso ngeengcinga ezinje: ewe, ndiyazenzela okanye ndifuna ukucinga ukuba mna.
Njengoko benditshilo, Iimpawu zeengelosi zihlala zijolise ekuncedeni wena. Iingelosi nazo azikaze zithethe zisuka kwifom ka 'Ndi', kodwa zisoloko zivela kuthi 'thina.' Abalinganiswa beengelosi bahlala benothando. Uziva womelele ngumqondiso emva komyalezo wabo. Uziva ukuzithemba kukhula. Xa ufumana le mvakalelo, umzekelo, igama elisendleleni yakho okanye intsiba endleleni yakho, uyazi ukuba ziingelosi zakho. Zithembe kunye ne-intuition yakho. Oko iingelosi zifuna ukukuxelela kona, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, zihlala zivela ngokukhawuleza okukhulu! Uyazi ke ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba umqondiso wenzelwe ntoni. Uziva kwaye uyazi ukuba yenzelwe ntoni.
Iingcebiso ezintlanu zokuqonda ngcono imiqondiso kunye neempawu zengelosi:
Ndiyazi kwaye ndiqonda kakuhle ukuba akusoloko kulula ukuthatha imiqondiso kwiingelosi zakho. Ngezi ngcebiso, ndiyathemba ukukunceda xa usendleleni.
Ingcebiso 1: Buza imiqondiso okanye imiqondiso ethile
Umbuzo: Zingelosi ezithandekayo, nceda undincede ayichazekanga. Uncedo olufumanayo lunokuba yiyo nantoni na. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana uphawu ngentsiba, cela intsiba. Umzekelo, buza lo mbuzo: Ingelosi ethandekayo, ndazise ngentwasahlobo esemendweni wam endikuyo. Ukuba ufuna ukufumana inkuthazo ngaphambi kokuba ndithethe into: ukubhala iposti yebhlog. Emva koko cela inkuthazo ngeposti yebhlog. Cacisa, kwaye uya kufumana ingcaciso.
Icebiso 2: Camngca
Ukucamngca kukunceda unxibelelane ngakumbi nesiqu sakho kunye nentliziyo yakho. Xa uqhagamshele ngakumbi kwilizwe lakho elingaphakathi, kuya kuba lula ukuyithemba intuition yakho. Xa uyithemba intu yakho, uvule ngakumbi imiqondiso yeengelosi zakho. Ukucamngca kuyanceda ekuzoliseni umsinga weengcinga zakho; oku kuyanceda ekufumaneni abalinganiswa abaziingelosi.
Ingcebiso 3: Eyendlebe
Xa unesiseko esifanelekileyo, uhlala nawe ngakumbi. Uqine ezihlangwini zakho. Unxibelelana ngakumbi nawe nayo yonke into ejikeleze wena. Ngokufanayo, kunye neengelosi zakho. Xa usekwe ngokufanelekileyo, uyadada kancinane kwimicimbi yosuku, kumjelo weengcinga zakho, okanye kwilizwe lezinto eziphathekayo. Ubuyela kuwe kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Unokuziva ungcono ukuba uziva ulungile kwaye yintoni engekhoyo. Yintoni evela kwiingelosi zakho kunye nento engenziyo.
Ingcebiso 4: Jonga ujonge ingqalelo
Ubomi buxakekile kule mihla, kwaye kukho zonke iintlobo zeziphazamiso ezisingqongileyo. Ngamanye amaxesha sihambahamba njengenkukhu engenakhanda okanye sibaleke kwangethuba. Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima kwiingelosi zakho ukufikelela kuwe. Ukuba uxakeke kakhulu okanye uphazamisekile, uhlala ungaziboni iimpawu ezinikwa ziingelosi. Emva koko thabatha indawo endaweni. Vala ifowuni yakho ngenye imva kwemini, uye kwindalo, kwaye umangaliswe. Emva koko jonga ngononophelo olujikeleze wena, uya kubona ukuba mininzi imimangaliso ekujikelezileyo kunokuba ucinga!
Icebiso 5: Cela uncedo kwiingelosi zakho
Cela iingelosi zakho ukuba zikuncede ukwenze wamkele ngakumbi imiqondiso yabo. Unokuphinda ubuze ukuba bafuna ukunyusa intuition. Buza ngendlela evakalelwa ilungile kuwe. Ngokuvakalayo okanye engqondweni. Khumbula, iingelosi zinomdla wokukunceda, kodwa ukuthatha nokuthatha amanyathelo okuphucula intuu yakho kukuwe.
Qalisa kwaye ubuze iingelosi zakho ngeempawu!
Iingelosi ziyakuvuyela ukukunceda; kuxhomekeke kuwe ukuba ulwamkele uncedo lwabo kwaye wenze okuthile ngalo! Qalisa kwaye ungayeki ukuba ayisebenzi kwangoko. Nika ixesha kwaye uzinike ixesha. Zithembe kunye neengelosi ezikungqongileyo. Kwaye khumbula xa uphose umqondiso, iingelosi zakho zinika imiqondiso yazo amatyeli aliqela ude ubabone. Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku likuncedile kwaye lingakunceda.Ndiyazi njani ukuba ingelosi yam engumgcini ikunye nam.
Iziqulatho
- Yintoni iingelosi zam zifuna ukuba ndiyazi
- Iingelosi zisinika njani imiqondiso nemiqondiso?
- Zeziphi iingelosi ezikhona:
- Iintsiba zisendleleni yakho
- Ngeengelosi amanani
- Via abathunywa abangabantu
- Umzekelo wobuqu
- Amafu
- Iitekisi namagama
- Ukuphupha
- Ungawubona njani umyalezo ngephupha leengelosi zakho?
- Ukuphefumlelwa kunye nesibindi
- Umnyama
- Iimeko ezidibeneyo
- Uyazi njani into iingelosi ezifuna ukukuxelela yona malunga neempawu kunye nemiyalezo yazo?
- Intloko yakho ilungile kwiimpawu ezonakalisayo
- Iingcebiso ezintlanu zokuqonda ngcono imiqondiso kunye neempawu zengelosi:
- Ingcebiso 1: Buza imiqondiso okanye imiqondiso ethile
- Icebiso 2: Camngca
- Ingcebiso 3: Eyendlebe
- Ingcebiso 4: Jonga ujonge ingqalelo
- Icebiso 5: Cela uncedo kwiingelosi zakho
- Qalisa kwaye ubuze iingelosi zakho ngeempawu!