Olu lulwimi lomzimba lomntu othandana nawe
Ubona njani ukuba indoda inomdla kuwe?
Ndimele ndivume ukuba oku akukho lula
Amadoda zizidalwa ezinzima. Kwaye awunakusoloko ubaxelela xa ethandana nawe.Ngaphandle kokuba ufunde amaqhinga am.
Ndineminyaka ndithandana nomqeqeshi kwaye ndingenzi nto ngaphandle kokudibanisa amadoda nabafazi. Kuyo yonke loo minyaka, ndiqeqeshe amawaka amadoda kwaye ndafunda ngokuchanekileyo indlela amadoda anokuziphatha ngayo xa ethanda umntu wasetyhini.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ufumana imiqondiso elishumi elinesixhenxe apha ngezantsi ukubona ukuba indoda iyakuthanda na.
Ayingawo amabali aqhelekileyo malunga nolwimi lomzimba njenge jonga ukuba iingalo zakhe ziwele na kuba oko kuthetha ukuba uvaliwe. Oku kulula kakhulu.
Hayi, ungakhangeleka ungcono kakhulu kwindlela indoda ngokubanzi iziphatha ngayo kuwe nakubantu abakungqongileyo. Ukuba ubona umahluko obaluleke ngakumbi, njengokuqhubeka ekuphatha umhle ngakumbi kunabantu abakungqongileyo, ngumqondiso othembekileyo lowo.
Qaphela: soloko uvavanya ulwimi lomzimba ngokwamaqela
Ukuba ufuna ukuvavanya ukuba uyakuthanda na, kufuneka ulumke kakhulu. Kuba kulinga ukugqiba kwangoko emva komqondiso omnye.
Kodwa oku kuyingozi.
Kungenxa yokuba uhlala ujonge kwizigaba zokuziphatha. Ukuba awuboni mqondiso mnye kodwa ezinye iimpawu ezisibhozo ziyenza, ke ezo zisibhozo zinokuba nobunzima obukhulu ngakumbi kunaleyo ilahlekileyo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha jonga ukuba zingaphi imiqondiso engezantsi onokuphawula ngazo. Uya kubona ukuba kukho ezininzi ukuba indoda ngokwenene uthando nawe.
Kwakhona, cinga ngamakhwenkwe akho angaphambili kunye nokuba bakuphathe ngoluhlobo na ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Uya kubona ukuba isimilo esingezantsi ziipateni ezibuyayo phantse nayo yonke indoda xa izama ukudlala ngothando nawe.
Nantsi ke. Ulwimi lweshumi elinesixhenxe lomzimba olubonisa ukuba umntu uyakuthanda okanye uyakuthanda:
Umqondiso 1: Ujolise ngokupheleleyo kuwe
Into oyenzayo ngosuku igqitywa yinto oyibona ibaluleke kakhulu.
Xa ulambile, uyatya okanye ucinga ngokutya ukuba awukwazi. Xa unxaniwe, usela into, okanye ngokuqhubekayo ucinga ngeglasi yamanzi ebandayo.
Kwaye ukuba uthanda umntu, ke unengxaki enkulu yokucinga ngenye into, mayingagxili kwenye into.
Injani le nto ngokolwimi lomzimba endodeni?
Masithi uthetha nendoda.
Uyame ngomva kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ujonge ifowuni yakhe. Ukuba umntu uza ngabantu abaziyo, ubulisa loo mntu. Kwaye phambi kokuba wazi ukuba uthetha nomnye umntu.
Le ndoda ayinasidingo sokungabikho kwincoko ende nawe.
Indoda oyithandayo ayinakukufihla oko kuba umzimba wayo uphela ujolise kuwe.
Ewe kunjalo, kubandakanya namehlo akhe.
Ke ukuba umntu akajonganga iselfowuni yakhe okomzuzwana, akabakhathaleli kwaphela abahlobo bakhe abahamba ngendlela kwaye baqaqambe kwisimo sakhe sengqondo ukuba unomdla wakhe Emva koko kujongeka njengoku.
Olona vavanyo luhle kukulinda de kukhale iselfowuni yakhe.
Uninzi lwabantu luya kuyithatha kwangoko okanye bayinike ingqwalaselo eyimfuneko. Kodwa indoda oyithandayo inokungahoyi okanye uyityhale kude.
Umqondiso 2: Uyanqwala kuyo yonke into oyithethayo
Indoda oyithandayo iya kuvuma nawe kwinto yonke.
Kungenxa yokuba akakwazi ukucinga ngokucacileyo. Indoda emi phambi komfazi omhle iba ngaphantsi krelekrele.
Ukuba uyakuthanda, akagxeki.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, uya kukunika lonke ithuba olifunayo ukuze ubalise ibali lakho.
Oko kuthetha ukuba uhlala enqwala ukubonisa ukuba uyifumana inomdla kwinto oyithethayo kwaye kuya kufuneka uqhubeke nokuthetha.
Ndihlala ndicacisa kubaxhasi bam abangamadoda abaqeqeshi ukuba kufuneka bayikhathalele le nto. Kulungile, ewe ayonto intle ukuthetha nendoda enganiki tyala kwaphela. Ke ndihlala ndibacacisela ukuba kufuneka bathembeke kangangoko malunga nento abayenzayo kwaye bangafumani inomdla.
Ngelishwa, ndinganika into endifuna ukuyicebisa, kwakamsinya nje ukuba umthengi ofanayo ephambi komfazi omhle, akanakunceda kwaye amnike ngokufanayo kuyo yonke indawo.
Kwaye kulwimi lomzimba wakhe, uyibonisa ngokuqhubeka ngokunqwala.
Umqondiso 3: Ungqiyame ngakuwe
Ukuba ume kwindawo yokushicilela kwaye ujonge amadoda athetha nomntu obhinqileyo, kukho indlela ethe ngqo yokujonga ukuba yeyiphi na indoda ekuhombise.
Kuya kufuneka ujonge ukuba yeyiphi indoda exhomekeke emfazini
Ukuze angqiyame phambili ukuze asondele kuye kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Le yinto eyenziwa ngamadoda ngokungazi. Uninzi aluziqondi kwaphela. Andizukuyikhomba kuye kuba ukuba ayinamvakalelo, yindlela ethembekileyo yokubona ukuba uyakuhombisa.
Esinye isizathu sokuba amanye amadoda ajonge phambili kukuziva engakhuselekanga. Abazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uyayithanda incoko nabo. Ukuba umntu unovalo, angayibonisa ngale ndlela.
Le mithambo-luvo isebenzela inzuzo yakho ukuba uyayithanda indoda
Indoda enovalo ityale imali ngokweemvakalelo. Ukuqinisekisa kwakhona ngalo mzuzu kuqinisekisa ukuba uziva ekhululekile kwaye nethuba lokuba into ivele phakathi kwakho iyanda.
Umqondiso 4: Uyakuhleka zonke iziqhulo zakho (nokuba zingahlekisi)
Uhlala ubona iqela lamadoda lihleka kakhulu kwintetho yomfazi onomtsalane, nangona ingahlekisi kwaphela.
Yinto eyenzekayo kwindoda oyithandayo
Sele ekufumanisa enomtsalane, kwaye ukuba uthetha into ebonakala ngathi yintlekisa, uya kuthatha ithuba lokuhleka. Xa abantu bethandana, oku kungena kugqithiso, kwaye bayangxolisana.
Bafumanisa ukuba izimvo zobudenge ziyahlekisa.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba uyakuthanda na, ungacofa ihlaya elihlazo okanye ubale ibali elikruqulayo kwaye ubone ukuba ligcina ingqalelo yakhe.
Ukuba naye kufuneka ahleke ngayo, unethamsanqa kwaye ukufumanisa unomtsalane.
Umqondiso 5: Kubonisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho
Uhamba ngeenwele zakho ngesandla sakho, kwaye wenza okufanayo. Okanye uhlala, kwaye ubambe imilenze yakhe kunye nomzimba ongaphezulu ngokuchanekileyo kwindawo efanayo nawe.
Okomzuzwana uyakubonisa, njengoko iingcali zolwimi lomzimba zikubiza njalo.
Oko kuthetha ukuba uthatha ulwimi lomzimba olufanayo nolwakho.
Uya kuyenza loo nto kuphela ukuba uziva ekhululekile. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuba neemvakalelo ezilungileyo kunye naye.
Ixesha elide kwaye uhlala esenza le nto ngencoko, kokukhona lithuba eliphezulu lokuba uya kukuthanda.
Umqondiso 6: Ukhangele uninzi lwamehlo
Mhlawumbi lolona phawu lubaluleke kakhulu kulwimi lomzimba kweli nqaku liphela.
Ngokulandela iliso lomntu, unokubona ukuba lo mntu unake ntoni
Ukuba amehlo akhe akuwe ngalo lonke ixesha, oko kuthetha ukuba ukunika isaziso ngalo lonke ixesha.
Inye kuphela isizathu soku, kwaye yile yokuba uyakuthanda.
Kuyavunywa, oku kusebenza kuphela ukuba ubekwindawo yokushicilela okanye nikunye ngenye indlela apho unxibelelwano lwezothando luvunyelwe.
Ukuba uhlala enkantini kunye nomlingane wakho nibalise ibali, iyavakala into yokuba ujonga wena ngalo lonke ixesha. Kodwa kwezinye iimeko, iimeko ngexesha lethu lasimahla, kuyacaca kakhulu ukujonga umntu ixesha elide. Wenza kuphela ukuba umntu unento entle ayithethayo.
Nokuba uyamthanda loo mntu.
Amanye amadoda akabi nabuganga bokudibana ngamehlo
Bajonge kude xa uzama. Okanye unentloni. Ayisiyongqondo leyo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, inokuthenjwa xa ekujonga ngokuqhubekekayo, ngakumbi kwindawo entle efana ne-pub okanye iklabhu yasebusuku.
Umqondiso 7: Amehlo akhe ajikeleza ngamanye amaxesha
Kwaye andithethi ukuba ujonga isilingi okanye iinyawo zakhe.
Indoda ekufumanayo inomtsalane iya kubonisa oku kuba ijonga umzimba wakho ngalo lonke ixesha.
Rhoqo ngendlela engangqalanga. Amadoda anezakhono zentlalo ezingcono aya kuyazi indlela yokufihla oku.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ayinambeko kuye
Kwaye andizukuxela ukuba ucinga ntoni ngalo mzuzu. Kufuneka ungambuzi malunga naloo nto.
Kodwa ukuba indoda ikujonga ukusuka entloko ukuya ezinzwaneni okanye ngamanye amaxesha inamathela kwiindawo ezithile zomzimba wakho ngamehlo, ke kukho ithuba eliqinisekileyo lokuba iya kukufumanisa unomtsalane okanye mhlawumbi ikuthandane nawe.
Umqondiso 8: Uba novalo xa esithi ndlela-ntle
Jonga:
Uninzi lwamadoda alunantembelo kwaye abazi ukuba benze njani intshukumo. Benza nje into. Rhoqo ngethemba lentsikelelo.
Indoda engakuthandiyo ayiyi kuba nexhala lokuvalelisa.
Uya kuthi molo, akuphuze esidleleni okanye kwisandla uhambe ngokuthe cwaka. Kodwa indoda oyifumanayo inomtsalane akunakulindeleka ukuba inike isimo sengqondo.
Akazi ukuba ufanele akuncamise okanye akuphathe nangayiphi na enye indlela.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, xa usivalelisa luphawu lokuba uyakuthanda.
Ukuba uyayithanda, kuluncedo ukuyisebenzisa ngokuzichukumisa ngokwakho. Oku kunokuba yinto engenabungozi kodwa kugcine ixesha elide. Emva koko uya kuba nethemba lokuba yindoda eyokuncamisa.
Umqondiso 9: iyakuchukumisa
Ukuba niyathandana, ngethemba lokuba incoko efanayo yolwimi iya kuqala.
Kwincoko enjalo, uyakuchukumisa, kwaye umphendule ethubeni, kwakhona ngokumchukumisa.
Ukuba usebenzisa le ncoko ngokwakho-esisilumko ukunceda loo mntu akuhombise-ke kubalulekile ukuba unikele ingqalelo nokuba iimpendulo.
Ukuba akaphenduli kwaye ukuchukumisa kwakho akuphenduli, luphawu lokuba akakuthandi, Okanye uyoyika kakhulu ngokuchaphazela umntu wasetyhini.
Amadoda amaninzi aya kuthatha lonke ithuba ukukuchukumisa ukuba akufumanisa enomtsalane
Nangona bahlala bengoyiki ukwenza kakuhle, ukuba baziva ukuba unxweme lukhuselekile, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kuyenza.
Umqondiso 10: Isimo sakhe sengqondo sitshintsha ngokupheleleyo xa ethetha nawe
Yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu ukujonga kukuba ukuphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunabanye abantu basetyhini.
Lowo ngumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokuba uyakuthanda kwaye akoyiki ngabafazi ngokubanzi.
Jonga ngononophelo indlela athetha ngayo nabanye abafazi
- Ukuba umbona ethetha ngokufanayo, oku kubonisa ukuba akukho nto ingaqhelekanga iqhubekayo.
- Kodwa ukuba uyabona ukuba uyakuchukumisa kwaye akuphathe ngokwahlukileyo kunabanye abafazi, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda ngcono kunabanye.
Uya kuba novalo ngakumbi kwimeko yakho kwaye uya kuzama ukukuchukumisa rhoqo. Okanye utshintshe ithoni yakhe yonke kunye nembonakalo yobuso.
Abasetyhini banayo le nto kanye njengamadoda
Ukuba umi phambi kwendoda enomtsalane, uthetha ngokungafaniyo kunokuma phambi kwendoda engakwenzi kakhulu. Isimo sakho siphela siyatshintsha kwaye abantu banokubona oku kuwe.
Ngabahombisi abanamava kuphela njengamadoda amabi kunye nabadlali abaphumelela ngokugqibeleleyo ekugcineni la mabinzana efihliweyo. Kodwa indoda eqhelekileyo yendlu-egadini-nasekhitshini ikufumanisa kunzima kakhulu oku, kwaye uyayibona kwangoko xa ifumana umfazi eyahlukileyo.
Umqondiso 11: Uya kuhlala kufutshane nawe kangangoko
Indoda efuna ingqalelo yakho iya kuzama ukunceda ikamva.
Unethemba lokuba uza kumchukumisa kungekudala okanye kamva okanye angakuchukumisa. Kungenxa yoko le nto ethabatha inyathelo ngokukhangela ukusondela kwakho.
Ukwenza oku ngokuhlala okanye ukuma kufutshane nawe
Abantu abanobubele bafumana omnye nomnye, ngakumbi banokungena kwindawo yomntu ngamnye.
Ukuba ujonga iqela labantu, uhlala ubona ukuba ngoobani abatshatileyo ngokujonga indlela abasondelelene ngayo abantu.
Indoda oyithandayo iya kukhangela oko kusondela
- Ungambonisa ukuba awumfuni ngokuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa ukubuyela umva okanye ecaleni. Lowo ngumqondiso ocacileyo kuye wokuba akukho enye into kuyo.
- Kodwa ukuba ufumanisa ukuba le ndoda inomtsalane, ungambonisa oku ngokuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa uye phambili okanye uhlale ecaleni kwakhe. Yonke into enciphisa umgama phakathi kwakho iyasebenza.
Kungenxa yoko le nto ndihlala ndincomela ukuhlala ecaleni kwimihla.
Oku kubhetele kakhulu kuba uya kuba nomgama omncinci phakathi kwenu nobabini. Incoko ekuchukumisayo ikhululekile ngakumbi nayo. Imihla ohleli ecaleni kwayo endaweni yokuchasana ngamanye amaxesha ingcono amaxesha amaninzi.
Umqondiso 12: Akathandi xa uthetha namanye amadoda
Ukuba uthetha nendoda oyifunayo, ayizukuyixabisa into yokuba enye indoda ijoyine incoko.
Akayi kumnika ukukhanya emehlweni akhe.
Oko kukuthi, kunjalo, ngumntwana kodwa ngelishwa, kunjalo.
Indoda nganye iphendula ngokwahlukileyo xa indoda yesibini isiza kuthetha nentombi yayo.
- Abanye baba ndlongondlongo, kodwa masithembe ukuba indoda oyithandayo ayisiyiyo loo midlalo.
- Amanye amadoda athi cwaka.
- Kwaye amanye amadoda azama ukubuyela umva ekukhokeleni ngokuzibaxa okanye ngokuqhayisa ukuze akukholise ngakumbi kunenye indoda ejoyinileyo.
Umahluko kuphela ongekhoyo yindoda evumela enye indoda ukuba idibane nawe.
Ukuba indoda ayikhathali ukuba indoda engaqhelekanga inika ingxelo yokuthetha nawe, mhlawumbi ayikuthandi njengoko wawucinga ekuqaleni.
Amadoda anomona nje kwaye anokhuphiswano phakathi kwabo. Ke uhlala uhlala uqaphela ukuba xa isigebenga esitsha sifika elunxwemeni.
Umqondiso 13: Uyanga
Kukho uluvo olungaqhelekanga lokuba amadoda angathandi ukuwola.
Kukho inyaniso kuloo nto.
Ngenxa yokuba amadoda engakuthandi ukugonwa ngabantu, abaziva betsala umdla kubo. Abasetyhini banganga wonke umntu, kodwa amadoda ahlala enesidingo esincinci sonxibelelwano.
Ukuba ukwangile, oko kuthetha ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu
Kodwa ukuba uyenza rhoqo kwaye rhoqo, kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuthetha ukuba uyakufuna okanye uyathandana nawe.
Indoda ayizukuqhubeka ngaphandle kokuba ineemvakalelo ezinamandla. Kukwi-DNA yakhe ukuba nobubele kuwe xa ethandana nawe, kodwa ke akanabubele kwaphela kwihlabathi liphela.
Uphawu lwe-14: Uzimela kuye xa ejongene nawe
Ukuba ufumana uloyiko ngakumbi xa udibana naye, ngumqondiso olungileyo lowo.
Jonga:
Indoda ifuna ukwenza umbono omhle kumfazi ayithandayo. Kuninzi anokukunikela ngaloo nto. Kodwa mhlawumbi akanalo nofifi lokuba angakwenza njani oko.
Kungenxa yokuba akanalo nofifi lokuba abantu ababhinqileyo bakheke njani kwaye abanazo izakhono zentlalo zokukufaka enkundleni.
Ubuncinci, loo nto isebenza kumyinge ophakathi. Kukho amadoda anamava ngakumbi awaziyo ngqo ukuba ajike njani umfazi. Kodwa uninzi lwamadoda alunakukwenza oku kwaye ke lubenovalo xa bejongana nomfazi omtsha.
Ukuba ubona ukuba uqala ukuziphendulela kuye, uyazi ukuba unexabiso
Ungayibona ngokudlala ngempahla yakhe okanye ukuphatha izandla ngokungafanelekanga.
Okanye nawuphi na umqondiso apho enza khona iintshukumo ezincinci ezingasebenziyo ngaphandle kwenjongo yokuphulukana namandla luvo. Ke luphawu olomeleleyo lokuba kukho okungakumbi okuqhubekayo kwaye uyakuthanda kakhulu kunomyinge.
Ke sukuba neentloni xa ubona indoda iqhula.
Oko kuthetha ukuba uyakoyika kancinci okanye uyakuthanda. Kwaye ekubeni ungumfazi owomeleleyo ozimeleyo, ithuba lokugqibela liphezulu ngandlela thile.
Umqondiso 15: Ubonisa uthando esidlangalaleni
Indoda inokuba mnandi kuwe xa uwedwa.
Kodwa onjani umqondiso onamandla ukuba ubonakalisa konke oku kungasentla esidlangalaleni
Oko kuthetha ukuba indoda ayoyiki iimvakalelo zayo. Okanye ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu kangangokuba akakhathali nangokweemvakalelo zakhe.
Uninzi lwamadoda lukhathazeke kakhulu ngomfanekiso wabo. Abafuni ukubonakala bebuthathaka okanye banamathele emehlweni amanye amadoda. Kodwa indoda esothandweni ayikhathali. Akasenandaba nayo.
Endaweni yoko, ucinga ngawe kuphela.
Ngenxa yoko, ufuna ukukuchukumisa ngokuqhubekayo
Kwasesidlangalaleni. Unebhongo lokuba angaya esitratweni kunye nomfazi olunge njengawe kwaye ufuna ukubonisa wonke umntu kuwe.
Indoda ebonisa uthando esidlangalaleni- njengakwimiqondiso endiyichazile ngasentla- mhlawumbi iyakuthanda kakhulu.
Umqondiso 16: Uyakukhusela
Indoda ekuvumela ukuba uhambe ngaphakathi kwisitalato ukuze ihlale phakathi kwakho netrafikhi, yindoda oyithandayo.
Lonke olo hlobo lwezimbo zomzimba zibonisa ukuba uyazi (okanye ngokungazi) ukuphatha njengentombi yakhe.
Omnye umzekelo:
Xa kufika iqela lamadoda, uye abambe isandla sakho ngokuqinileyo okanye asikhame ukuze akwazise ukuba ukhuselekile. Okanye ukuba ukwi-disco okanye kwisihlwele, ukhusela umzimba wakho ngezakhe ukuze kungabikho mntu ungqubeka kuye.
Ezi ziqwenga zendoda eqhutywa yiprostone testosterone eza kuza nomyeni wakho ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu.
Umqondiso 17: Ukhangele isizathu sokuba kufuphi nawe
Indoda ekubonayo rhoqo kunokuba ubunokulindela Leyo yindoda oyifumanayo inomtsalane.
Ukuphakama kwesizathu asisebenzisayo ukuba sibe kubumelwane bakho, kokukhona kuya kubakho ithuba lokuba akubone.
Amadoda akuthandayo, khama zonke iintlobo zokujika ukuze ufumane ixesha elingakumbi nawe.
Oku kwahluka ngokwenza izizathu zokuba kwindawo yakho rhoqo ngokuzibeka ngendlela yokuba uza kubo rhoqo.
Iya kukumangalisa into edlalwa ngamadoda adlamkileyo athandana nawe.
Abanakukunceda.
Umnqweno wabo waloo mfazi ukhethekileyo ubathathile Ingqondo yabo.
Ngoku uyazi imiqondiso onokubona ngayo ukuba uyakuthanda
Njengoko benditshilo ngaphambili: Iimpawu azibonisayo, kokukhona unokuzithemba ngakumbi xa unokubheja ukuba uyakuthanda.
Uyabona ukuba wenza enye yezi zinto zingasentla? Emva koko ndinento entle kuwe.
Kodwa nangona engafakwanga amanqaku aphezulu kakhulu, naka ingqalelo:
Ndibhalile ingxelo ngezinto # 1 ezifunwa ngamadoda emfazini. Abasetyhini abayiqondayo le ndlela ilula yengqondo abanangxaki yokwenza indoda ibathandane.
Ke ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyakuthanda na okanye ufuna ukumenza athandane nangakumbi, bhalisa apha ngezantsi ngokushiya idilesi yakho ye-imeyile. Uyakufumana ingxelo endiyibiza ngokuba yiMfihlo yaMadoda ngokukhawuleza kwi-inbox yakho simahla.
Iziqulatho
- Olu lulwimi lomzimba lomntu othandana nawe
- Qaphela: soloko uvavanya ulwimi lomzimba ngokwamaqela
- Umqondiso 1: Ujolise ngokupheleleyo kuwe
- Umqondiso 2: Uyanqwala kuyo yonke into oyithethayo
- Umqondiso 3: Ungqiyame ngakuwe
- Umqondiso 4: Uyakuhleka zonke iziqhulo zakho (nokuba zingahlekisi)
- Umqondiso 5: Kubonisa ulwimi lomzimba wakho
- Umqondiso 6: Ukhangele uninzi lwamehlo
- Umqondiso 7: Amehlo akhe ajikeleza ngamanye amaxesha
- Umqondiso 8: Uba novalo xa esithi ndlela-ntle
- Umqondiso 9: iyakuchukumisa
- Umqondiso 10: Isimo sakhe sengqondo sitshintsha ngokupheleleyo xa ethetha nawe
- Umqondiso 11: Uya kuhlala kufutshane nawe kangangoko
- Umqondiso 12: Akathandi xa uthetha namanye amadoda
- Umqondiso 13: Uyanga
- Uphawu lwe-14: Uzimela kuye xa ejongene nawe
- Umqondiso 15: Ubonisa uthando esidlangalaleni
- Umqondiso 16: Uyakukhusela
- Umqondiso 17: Ukhangele isizathu sokuba kufuphi nawe
- Ngoku uyazi imiqondiso onokubona ngayo ukuba uyakuthanda