Ukuziphatha kwekati kwindalo yonke kukuncoma , iingcali zithi, kuba ikati yakho inxibelelana nawe kwaye ikuphawula njengowayo izalamane . Amakati achaza umhlaba wawo ngephunga Utshilo uMarilyn Krieger, umcebisi oqinisekisiweyo wokuziphatha kwekati eCarlifonia, okwaziwa ngokuba ngumqeqeshi wekati. Yindlela yokuchonga iintsapho zabo, abahlobo babo kunye neentshaba zabo. Xa ikati ibaleka kuwe, ithengisa ngevumba lakho. Kuyomeleza ukuba uyinxalenye yeqela (labo). Imnandi kakhulu.
Kutheni iikati zikuthinta
Iikati zinevumba elimnandi elikhupha iipheromones kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomzimba, kubandakanya izidlele, imisila, amabunzi, iinyawo, kunye neendawo ezimpundu. Xa behlikihla into okanye umntu othile, bafaka eli vumba kwaye lihlala ixesha elide, utshilo u-Amy Shojai, umcebisi oqinisekisiweyo wokuziphatha kwezilwanyana eTexas.
Unxibelelwano lwevumba alusayini kuphela into xa ikati ihamba ngeentshukumo, kodwa umyalezo onukayo nawo unamathela kunxibelelwano lwexesha elide, Utsho uShojai.
Olunye uhlobo lonxibelelwano, ikati kunye nelinye iqela kufuneka babekhona, umzekelo, ukubona umnqweno onomsila onobuhlobo, okanye ukuva amadevu kunye nomlozi, utshilo uShojai, umbhali weencwadi zokukhathalela izilwanyana ezingaphezu kwama-30, kubandakanya UKUQINISEKA: Ukusombulula iingxaki zokuziphatha ekhayeni lakho kunye neekati ezininzi. Unxibelelwano lwe-Vocal lunokuthatha umphefumlo omnye ngexesha, utshilo. Kodwa ivumba liyaqhubeka nokunxibelelana naxa ikati ishiye isakhiwo.
Ukurabha ikati nako kungangumbandela wokubanga umhlaba, kodwa kuya ngaphaya koko, utshilo uShojai. Indawo yokumakisha ijolise ngakumbi kwizinto nakwizithuba kwaye ihlala inxulumene nokuhlikihla kunye nokuhlikihla esidleleni.
Ithetha Ntoni Xa Iikati Zirabha Kuwe? Ukuphawula amalungu esizwe sabo.
Iikati zasendle zihlikihla omnye komnye ukuphawula amalungu esizwe sabo. Ifoto © maximkabb | Ingcinga.
Kwiikoloni zeekati ezinoburharha, i-feline iphawula njengamalungu esizwe sabo ngokurabha nokugquma iintloko zabo phantsi komnye nomnye. Olu luhlobo lonxibelelwano nokwamkelwa, utshilo uKrieger. Xa iikati zidlulisela le ndlela yokuziphatha ebantwini, baxuba ivumba labo kunye nelethu kwaye babanga nokwamkelwa. Ukuba ikati ayikuthandi, ngekhe ikuthambise, utshilo uKrieger.
Xa iikati zikukorobha, bathi, Uyinxalenye yeqela, ndiyinxalenye yakho, sonke siyinxalenye yeqela elinye, utsho.
Ngaba iikati zijolise kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ukuze zihlikihle ngenjongo?
Iikati azijongi kumalungu athile omzimba ngemiyalezo eyahlukeneyo; bahlala bengena kweyiphi indawo, utsho uKrieger.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba Ezinye iikati zisebenzisa le ndlela yokunikwa kwentloko njengokuziphatha okutsala ingqalelo, njengoko abanini bahlala bephendula ngolangazelelo kule ntetho yothando. Xa ufika ekhaya, ikati yakho iya kukubulisa. Ngamanye amaxesha ume ngenyawo zakhe zangasemva kwaye anike iikomityi ngebunzi lakhe, kodwa angayiphulula imilenze yakho, tsala umsila kunye namathole akho kwaye uthambise kuwe. Oku akuthethi ukuba ufuna ukukwenza ube 'yipropathi', ikwayindlela yokubulisa kwaye isebenza ukuvuselela ivumba leqela. Izinto ezisendlwini zihlala zifumana iikomityi, nangona eneneni kunokwenzeka ukuba zihlikihle imilomo yazo kwenye indawo. Ngale ndlela, ikati ikhupha ivumba layo, iyenza ikhuseleke. Le mizila ivumba kufuneka ivuselelwe rhoqo, kungenjalo ivumba liya kuthi ngumphunga. Ungasathethi ke ngabasebenzi abahamba rhoqo ukuya kuzo zonke ezo ndawo ngelaphu kwaye basuse ivumba elixabisekileyo! Izinto ezisezantsi zihlala ziphawulwa ngokuzihlikihla ngesilevu. IziqulathoNika iikomityi zokubulisa
Iikati ziyabulisana ngendlela efanayo: qala ngephunga lempumlo empumlweni, emva koko uziphulule ngamanqatha kunye nemisila ecaleni komnye nomnye. Bahlala bephela bephunga phantsi kwemisila yomnye nomnye. Oko kuyimbeko kulwimi lwekati, ngoko ungothusi ukuba ikati yakho ihlale ibambe impundu yayo phantsi kwempumlo!Uxinzelelo
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