Ukubaluleka kokomoya emiqolombeni.
Imiqolomba imele ukugcinwa okanye ukukhunjulwa iinkumbulo, iimvakalelo zethu, kunye nazo zonke iimvakalelo ezingenakushiya ngaphandleukukhanya.
Inkqubo ye- imiqolomba Yenza indawo yokusabela yendalo, indawo yokufihla okanye yokufihla into esingafuniyo ukuyibonisa. Ngamafutshane, imiqolomba ibonisa ukhuseleko, kokubini kubomi bokwenyani kwayeemaphupheni akho.
Mamaxesha amaninzisiphupha ngeendawokwaye zihlala zingamaphupha esixelela ngezinto ezingaziwayo ngobuntu bethu. Kwimeko yemiqolomba, uphawu lwabo kubomi bokwenyani luhambelana kakhulu nokutolikwa kwamaphupha abo. Ngaba uyafuna ukwazi ifayile ye- intsingiselo yokuphupha ngomqolomba?
Jongana neengxaki emqolombeni
Ukuphupha ngomqolomba okanye, endaweni yoko, ungaphakathi emqolombeni, kunentsingiselo ebonakalayo ecacileyo nebonakalayo. Uziva usengozini,uziva utshutshiswa, kwaye kufuneka uzimele kwinto okanye komnye umntu. Isenokwenzeka ukuba i-subconscious yakho iyazi ngaphambi kwakho ukuba umhlobo uza kukungcatsha okanye ubalulekile iingxaki ezizayo ebomini bakho.
Iingxaki zabo bazimele emqolombeni zingavela nakweyiphi na intsimi, iimvakalelo, ezentlalo, usapho, okanye umsebenzi, kodwa ukukhusela akunakuba lolona khetho lokujongana nezo ngxaki. Ungathatha ukuhlala kwakho emqolombeni njengendlela yokubonisa de ufumane indlela yokusombulula imiba, kodwa gcinani engqondweni ukuba ngaxa lithile kuya kufuneka Phuma kwaye ujongane nayo.
Ukuba ephupheni lakho ekugqibeleni ushiya umqolomba, oko kuthetha ukuba uya yoyisa nabuphi na ubunzima. Ngapha koko, ukutolikwa kweli phupha nemiqolomba kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo zonke izinto ezivelayo, kunye neemvakalelo ezizivelisayo, ukuba uziva ulilolo, uphumle, ukhuselekile, okanye ukhuselekile.
Amaphupha apho sizibona ngaphakathi emqolombeni okanye emqolombeni kufuneka atolikwe ngokusekwe kwiziganeko kunye nemifanekiso ekuwo, kunye neemvakalelo ezenziweyo.
Ukuphupha ngaphakathi emqolombeni apho kukhoamanziluphawu lokuba iimvakalelo zethu zihamba kakuhle, ngelixa sifumanaumlilokuyo, ibonisa ukuba sigcine ezahlukeneyoiinkanuko,kwaye kunokwenzeka nanini na ukuba sikukhuphe konke oku, okunokubangela ukuphazamiseka okuninzi.